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~~no big post this week,~~ down with cis
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Youre the one who has to live in your body the rest of your life
Yeah you’re right… and they’re all in with me so it’s basically an unfounded fear. I just am not sure how to feel about it personally and am projecting my own anxiety on them.
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They also Really like penetrative sex and I know there are workarounds and I’d prefer them just to deemphasize my dick but ughhhhh maybe I am sure how to feel about itI feel like I didn’t notice any issues beforehand in the haze of whatever I was before realizing. It’s only post coming out im starting to hone in on what I like and don’t like
Tbh a big reason figuring out I was trans took "so long" and I doubted it was I didn't feel like I had bottom dysphoria. I think that feeling you describe is very typical
Thank you, you put a lot of my thoughts into words when I don’t know how to make sense of them
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I still top, I just use my strap. I also used my strap before bottom surgery sometimes anyway lolsex
This conversation actually prompted me to be open about how I was feeling to my partner and, shocker, it's fine. Don't know the extent of my feelings yet, but at least I'm over the phallocentric block I've had for a while. So thank you!