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Spent some time with a friend who will almost certainly be the last person I use my gock with before surgery unless I pick someone up randomly (probably not, I would rather work some OT instead lol)Checked off the last of my boxes I wanted before I get a vagina while Im stuck with her in this form. As ever, sex was on the whole great and all but it does feel like its missing something critical and Im not totally satisfied. There were a lot of years where I had no idea what that could be, but after transitioning it was pretty easy to figure out - yeah its just bottom dysphoria. Im glad I bought my strap and harness well before because it did confirm that I didnt care about the difference between it being my flesh or silicone. I am looking forward to using it the way that'll feel right instead of this very uneasy alliance I have with her now.
Does suck that Im doomed to be celibate now for so long wtf whyyyyy, the crosses I must bear to have vaginoplasty 😩
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Glad you were able to check off all your bucket list items and will get surgery next week! That's very excitingIt feels a bit dumb but I have my own set of boxes I want to check off before I'm not able too anymore. I don't know exactly how important it is to me, or how it'd actually go, idk I guess I just also have things I want to do thats kinda important to me.
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I did get to do everything I wanted, but if I hadnt I think I would have made peace with it too. I definitely would not have told them to cancel my surgery 😬😬, I want this thing transformed much more than a silly bucket style list checked off. And the list was stuff I wanted, there's plenty of things I never did either because I didnt wanna or never had the opportunity but it didnt matter to me, cause I didnt wanna do it in the first place lol