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I'm poly but my entire emotional load I can handle is one person and has been for a while, so mostly it's down to the other partner having partners. Even before I knew I was poly, I didn't care if my partners cheated - I would've been like "couldve told me, we could've had a whole orgy etc" I couldn't hinge (be a partner with multiple partners) cause I barely have it in me to have one partner.In this nonsexual open relationship, are you allowed to have another/multiple sexual partners? Or is this all strictly platonic?
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This is where im at. I (jokingly) call it de jure poly, de facto mono. (Tho lately im kinda feeling like i need to be alone and devote all that emotional energy to myself)
Well there's nothing wrong with that tbh. Especially if you know what's happening.
I cant remember the word but there's a style of poly where you make yourself your primary and your other relationship(s) your secondary.
If you're in a relationship with someone with multiple partners, just make sure you get your time. That means your partner shouldn't only be talking about dates and people they're seeing when they talk to you (like that shouldnt be the subject of the conversation 95% of the time), they shouldn't be texting their other partners when you're having quality time. These other people are important to them, for sure, and it's nice to hear their plans. And maybe one day you can all be invited to a nice lil garden party and hang out and chat. But you should still be getting one on one time with your partner lol
Basically our relationship is now platonic and I can have a sexual partner if I want.
She wants romance but not sex. And I'm used to the two being connected so am having trouble adjusting and trouble with sexual tension/frustration.
So was hoping to find non-critical examples of non-sexual romantic relationships. Stuff that's not dead bedroom brainworms.