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this post was submitted on 15 Jul 2024
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I feel kinda good reading this actually. I'm pretty much considered a weird, lucky special case wherever I go, so it's really cool to hear from someone similar to me. Fuckin rad =) Glad to hear being trans is going at least okay for you so far.
Yeah I can relate, I respond okay online but in person or realtime chat I will drop spaghetti and run away. I do okay not offending people at least... I found masking to be exhausting and goofy, so I try not to as much as possible. In some social situations it's necessary, and I still have to talk to like service workers or cab drivers, but generally I try to live without the 'tism mask, and mainly that means fuckin infodumps and essays. I want to talk BIG about my goofy interests. And so...
Okay awesome, thank you
I guess people have different perceptions, I haven't heard anything super negative though so that's good. I do in fact luv me queer liberation and want to be empathetic!!! I can see myself in our beloved dorky eggs in so many ways. The mega is splendid and I wanna give back to it any way I can. Contrasting and comparing different experiences of being NB is great, I love that.
I wish people would stop saying they enjoy my book posting though
I have an audience and they actually like that shit... wtf scary........ (translated: I am shocked and flattered and pleased, I fucking love bookposting)
Waow
I have loved watching this place blow up and grow, 912 comments the last week of pride was super cool. I guess I will Never Stop Posting 
NB stuff is epic. I too, do not mask irl. I donβt think I have much of an autistic social deficit, but I do got the ADHD surplus. Iβm either βfuck you for trying to speak to me,β or cannot stop talking, esp about special interests. Online I love special interest posting if I have the same interest but scroll past if not, but irl I just love hearing people talk about fixations.
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Yeah I get that, I think I'm probably younger than most people in the mega yet I've been out as trans for just as long or longer. I think of it as a testament to the fact that being trans is a much more understood thing now than it was even just ten or fifteen years agoHaha I find responding online to be really difficult. I'm also autistic but I mask a lot and I honestly aspire to mask less? But also I've had very little in-person social interaction for over a year outside of my family so honestly idek how I come across now.
... maybe I will try to do some more infodumps about my silly little hobbies
I love this mega. May the Posting continue
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I think it kinda helps not going outside, I'm allergic to grass anyway tbh.
Tearing off the mask is hard work, it can get ingrained as a defense mechanism or survival tool, but it's worth it to tear off imo. I like being autistic.
If you do infodumps I will upbear them, lfg