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[-] LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

You know what's not fun but funny i saw a poster yesterday at the doctor's saying 99% of people over 50 have it and i was like wow seems bad

[-] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

I thought that was for elder people. They don't say too much about it happening younger. I should ask about it at my next annual. Hope it clear soon for you.

[-] Salah@hexbear.net 8 points 4 hours ago

Do you have an immune deficiency? My government’s health agency says that shingles vaccine is only useful if you have an immune deficiency or older than 60. But I think they might be lying to safe money on vaccination programs. I don’t have the money to pay for a vaccine myself

[-] deforestgump@hexbear.net 2 points 3 hours ago
[-] FloridaBoi@hexbear.net 7 points 4 hours ago

You can get shingles younger than 60 so if symptoms show up they tend to vaccinate after antiviral treatment iirc

[-] abc@hexbear.net 5 points 4 hours ago
[-] EmmaGoldman@hexbear.net 10 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

My secret shame is that the only vaccine I have successfully gotten in the last ten years was a covid vaccine in December 2020.

I have tried so many times to get vaccinated and I just keep fainting until they give up and send me home. I can't get anyone to administer vaccines while I'm under general anaesthesia, but this would essentially be the only option for me. Just shoot me full of everything in the fridge while I'm out for surgery or something. Also, I would need to be unconscious before they put an IV in and I can't get them to do this either.

[-] Keld@hexbear.net 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Well because that is an enormous risk for a routine thing. Have you tried some of the routine tips? Like relaxing and laying down, going on a full stomach with plenty of water in you, tensing your thigh muscles, playing a game on your phone as it happens, or bringing a buddy to talk to you as it is happening? If none of the standard things work after having tried them you should tell your doctor because if you are that averse to needles that is super important information.

Edit: Wait does this sounds condescending? Am I being condescending? I don't mean to be.

[-] EmmaGoldman@hexbear.net 6 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I've tried everything, even taking benzodiazepines before hand. Taking a blood sample is always a nightmare. They always stick me at least half a dozen times before they're successful and that only makes me panic more. I can't even watch some content that shows needles or blood in normal-ish contexts. That happens a crazy amount on TV and movies. I can handle stuff like John Wick or Evil Dead but a nosebleed or someone cutting their hand while chopping vegetables and I'm done for.

My doctor and therapist both know I'm that averse, and we don't do blood work or injections because of it. We agreed on trying the auto-pen method of zepbound eventually to try and exposure therapy my way to not freaking myself out just with the thought of it. Discussing it in text form like this has also been somewhat helpful because I can like, run away and distract myself for a few minutes if I feel the panic coming and then come back to continue.

Also, nah, it didn't sound condescending.

[-] Keld@hexbear.net 6 points 4 hours ago

It's good to hear your doctor is taking it seriously and cool that you're working so hard on this, and the auto-pen solution is a good middle step. It would be cool if you could use that for vaccines too, I guess. Alas.

[-] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 3 points 3 hours ago

tensing your thigh muscles, playing a game on your phone as it happens, or bringing a buddy to talk to you as it is happening? sicko-intrigued

[-] Keld@hexbear.net 3 points 3 hours ago

Is this a sex joke. How is tensing your thigh muscles or playing on your phone a sex thing?

[-] doleo@lemmy.one 2 points 3 hours ago

Everything’s a sex joke, if you’re that way inclined. Try not to think about it, it’ll drive you mad. Or mad horny.

[-] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Yes it's a sex joke when taken out of context. Couldn't help it. spray-bottle

Masturbating, phone sex, there's remote things now hammer-and-vibe. With a distance buddy can be even better. Tensing your thighs can redirect orgasmic energy and prolong the session.

[-] Keld@hexbear.net 15 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

The local word for shingles here is "Hellfire". Vaccines are good.

[-] deforestgump@hexbear.net 13 points 7 hours ago

Accurate description. My arm feels like it wants to fall off.

[-] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 5 points 6 hours ago

Yeah, my friend got shingles at 24 and she was absolutely miserable the entire time

Gonna ask my doctor if I can get it next time i'm there

[-] IranOuttaOil@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago
[-] Flyberius@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago

I just had shingles. Luckily it wasn't too extreme, but it was a very unpleasant sarcastic and I still have some lingering sensation under the skin.

[-] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 8 points 7 hours ago

Is it still something for the over 50 crowd?

[-] Wisp@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

I had a family member get it while they were still in highschool

[-] deforestgump@hexbear.net 9 points 7 hours ago

Well- I’m in my 30’s. It is apparently a hell of a lot worse when you’re 50+.

[-] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago

Good to know, I thought it was only in your 50s it springs up

[-] Esoteir@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

~~Since the mpox and shingles vaccines are the same thing, at least where i'm at in the US you can get one for free at the state department of health if you say you're gay or traveling to a high risk country (not sure if this category requires proof of travel tho)~~

~~just to set expectations, for me it gave me a painful lump under my skin for like 5-ish days for each shot, but it wasn't too bad and obvs it won't happen for everyone~~

wait nevermind im stupid ignore this, smallpox/mpox is not the same as chickenpox/shingles, the above applies if you want a smallpox/mpox shot i guess tho lmao

[-] Blockocheese@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Started freaking out that my eczema was actually shingles after seeing this then remembered I've never had chickenpox

Hope you feel better soon!

[-] deforestgump@hexbear.net 6 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Thank you! I was under the impression that I never had chicken pox either but apparently I must’ve had it very mildly as a kid.

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