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[-] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

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[-] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago
[-] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Soon it'll be 100 years on HRT!

Congrats on your milestone

[-] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

And then soon enough, 1000 years queen-ohoho

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[-] queermunist@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 month ago

I am now a skirts girl. Pants are for work.

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[-] transbyanism@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

Today I didn't do anything at work so I got paid for reading yuri and theory :3

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[-] segfault11@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

they sent me lewd pics chat 😳

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[-] Tommasi@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

My bikini arrived, I'm gonna try swimming in the ocean this weekend doggirl-grin

[-] SickSemper@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

presenting fem at work, everyone’s using my name, trying ritalin for my brain, gf called me gorgeous crush everything’s coming up [redacted]

[-] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

It's okay you can say Milhouse here

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[-] Dispossessed@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

I ordered some "aspirational dresses" thinking in a few years of hormones I'd look good in them and wear them out. Well, chat, I'm delighted to say they fit, i looked gorgeous and I went out in one last night and felt like a queen.

Some old boomer passers-by looked at me and my girlfriend like they wanted to kill us but I'm getting pretty used to that by now. And they were outweighed by all the smiles of queer recognition. I guess I wear beautiful dresses now.

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[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

Gotta say, Im still really digging having a vagina! Its great every day. I still grin like an idiot when I see it and look at it.

I am glad that FINALLY I'm on the part of the recovery schedule where dilating is once a day and slowly I can decrease that (or just have someone else to dilate for me so to speak lol).

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[-] transbyanism@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

hello fellows transes new person here:3 yay, i wrote an intro.post you can see on my profile if you wanna see dunno if its anything worth reading

hope everyones having a nice day, mine isnt and everything overwhelming lol

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[-] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

two years on estrogen today bridget-vibe

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[-] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

gf keeps commenting on how cute she finds my giggle and honestly it drives me a little wild i love her so much crush

[-] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

a very cool feature of capitalism is that you can discontinue a product and simultaneously introduce a new product with a lightly tweaked recipe, package it in a bottle of half the volume, slap "professional" on the label, and charge twice as much for the privilege as an introductory offer before jacking up the price further. no other economic system could innovate like this.

(yes i am mad that my cheap and good conditioner is no longer cheap)

[-] transbyanism@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

sex, rant, TMIOut of the blue so apologies I suppose, I'm a bit of a prude regarding this but whatever.. I just suck at fucking. I have a cis long term girlfriend and well she has her own sex issues like a lot of them but I also am just plainly bad. I cant finger her cause it hurts her, only very rarely it feels pleasurable. It took like 3 years of actively trying to have sex before I managed to make her cum using my fingers last month (it was the first time she didnt get off herself). I am not on HRT cause I live in fuckass reactionary hellhole that would murder me for it and exclude me legally and I dont mind PIV, so we have done it a few times, and each time it felt good for her but overwhelming and in the end painful to the point she didnt want to do penetrative whatsoever anymore so we havent. Because of other outside circumstances we barely have been having sex at all and it just sucks feels like any progress we did is just undoing/gone. It just seems so easy for everyone else while for me it's always been shit. I'm always paranoid of hurting her and feel like a bad person. And that I should do better. I dont have anyone to talk to about this, other than her cause we are very good at communication, that's not an issue. She also has chronic pain and is potentially disabled so that might factor in, though most of this was before the onset of the worse stuff. Idk it's just so bad to the point it's eating at me cause I should be able to fuck cause we both enjoy it but then somehow we/I fuck up and it hurts or etc. I cant give head cause well at one point shes oversensitive and it begins hurting her, penetration hurts her too much, or I hurt her legs if I keep them up. It's so tiresome we stopped actively having sex and are regressing I think, cause we both have trauma before we met eachother. We both also have problems expressing desire, her even moreso than me; so even if she wants me physically she never says it and I want her to say it but she has a lot of religious trauma and etc. Sorry this was too big of a rant, just had to get this off my chest :/ I hate feeling so incompetent. I think we both need couples sex therapy and proper resources for prep but we're too poor to go to therapy anyways

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Last day at the old job! And hopefully:

  • last day hiding my chest at work
  • last day going by a guy's name at work
  • last day having to act like a guy at work

But first a little relaxation time!!!!!

[-] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 1 month ago

Still getting a little misty eyed looking at my diploma with my name on it even a few days after graduation

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[-] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

So, me and this girl are sapphically sending cute little messages back and forth but also

::: spoiler sex we are definitely going to fuck for hours the next time we see each other. I'm bringing a selection of my lubes and toys and after we lay out the ground rules we're going feral on each other meow-shining

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

Said goodbye to the cool intern girl I met recently at work and nervously asked if she wanted to hang out or keep in touch and turned out she was already thinking about asking me!! But she said "Oh I was talking with my girlfriend about this cool guy I met at work and she said we should just swap numbers" which did not feel good... And before this I'd handed her my number which had my new/real name written on it... Maybe she was just keeping with the kayfabe I've established?

[-] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

Okay I think she legit did not put it together because she swung by my office right before leaving and asked if the name I wrote was mine and I said yes, then she asked pronouns and I said she/her, and then she was sooooo sorry it was really sweet. Seriously this girl was beside herself, I tried to let her know it's okay but idk if it sunk in. Hope that doesn't stop her from reaching out because I'd love to get to know her better

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[-] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

that's it i'm gonna start misgendering cis "people" whenever they "sir" me

[-] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

My dad finally found an issue with my gf and it's about her not speaking spanish and more importantly why haven't I taught her after 5 months catgirl-cry

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

I made a joke to one of my friends about calling me a [f slur] and he responded with something along the lines of, well, we actually don't know your sexuality, so we don't know if that's even a word for you. Like people clearly call trans women f slurs either way?

Look at him not assuming my sexuality though, I have wondered several times what the people who hadn't asked thought it was. Tbf to all of them I've never dated or even really expressed interest in dating.

[-] shallot@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

call trans women f slurs

Francegender.

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago
[-] shallot@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Liberte, eggalite, sororite!

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[-] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

i believe with my whole heart that every high level FIFA official should be executed

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[-] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

Non binary time traveller with they/then pronouns

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

Talked about my undercarriage stuff in therapy. Caught myself on the verge of tears saying "my body feels wrong" and now I'm kinda pissed I don't wanna have bottom dysphoria!!!!!

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Today ended up being pretty good. Bit vaguely sad/emotional but it's over some bullshit not depression. Might try and talk to someone about it but there's not really anything to be done.

One week until vacation. Just have to lock it in for one week.

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[-] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

I don't wanna be hyper femme. It's OK!

sees this image

Now I know I was just coping before boohoo

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[-] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

oki i finally got into wh40k mood and am playing Rogue Trader.

Why is it that every Owlcat gayme has a 10h prologue that makes me bounce off five times before I finally crack through and get obsessed with the game? anyways I'm iconoclasting all over the place, shooting dogmatists and heretics in the face and trying to woo Yrliet, the love of my life, who thinks I'm a disgusting mon'keigh so it's definitely going to happen! lea-blush

the melta gun sound effects and visuals are top tier marx-ok

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

I am really tired and a bit emotional feeling, I'm heading to bed very soon dont worry

spoilerkitty-cri sorry I'm a lot and I'm constantly needing support and shit. I know I'm a fucking mess and have been for actual years here. And I do feel bad about all the emotional work I am.

Really appreciate all of you. More then I could ever say. I don't have a lot of good people irl, and I have no idea how much longer it would have taken me to figure myself out and start transitioning without you. Love you all. Okay goodnight.

[-] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Finally watching Dunmeshi, super good we love a beautiful pathetic lesbian

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Watched the first 3 episodes of digital circus last night, really hoping to watch more tonight. It was really good so far, I feel like it's building and I'm excited.

I'm also just really, really fucking tired today.

[-] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

donald trump just sent nukes at brussels

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[-] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Going to see my girlfriend today. Gonna give her a smooch.

[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

I cut my own hair super cute and my mom didn't like it lol. My dad screamed at the walls like I had cut someone else's hair without their permission. I'm just happy I made them mad, though. I love being myself despite what they want or think about

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Not exactly looking forward to talking about my genitals in therapy tonight but I know I ought to... blargh

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[-] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Stocking and t-shirt equipped.

Now it's time to find a sufficiently secluded spot in nature to take risqué selfies.

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Genuinely bullshit that the only part of myself I really actively like are my tits and apparently I'm not supposed to just send them to people owl-pissed

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[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Not me listening to asmr of a girl calling me a pretty girl to help me sleep

[-] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

related but more hornystumbling into an asmr of a girl collaring me and treating me like a good girl and unlocking new depths of switchiness in myself

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