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[–] 14 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Said goodbye to the cool intern girl I met recently at work and nervously asked if she wanted to hang out or keep in touch and turned out she was already thinking about asking me!! But she said "Oh I was talking with my girlfriend about this cool guy I met at work and she said we should just swap numbers" which did not feel good... And before this I'd handed her my number which had my new/real name written on it... Maybe she was just keeping with the kayfabe I've established?

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  • [–] 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Okay I think she legit did not put it together because she swung by my office right before leaving and asked if the name I wrote was mine and I said yes, then she asked pronouns and I said she/her, and then she was sooooo sorry it was really sweet. Seriously this girl was beside herself, I tried to let her know it's okay but idk if it sunk in. Hope that doesn't stop her from reaching out because I'd love to get to know her better

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Hope that doesn't stop her from reaching out because I'd love to get to know her better

    Without knowing the situation honestly I think it improves your chances.

    (To clarify does she have a girlfriend or a girl-frind? Are you looking for a relationship or friendship)

    Unless someone is transphobic, finding out someone out is not a man is a relief to many women.

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