185
submitted 22 hours ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top new old
[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 hours ago

"Holding off"? No, I can't afford it. I'd love to own a home but my wage doesn't keep up with inflation.

[-] [email protected] 25 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)
[-] [email protected] 30 points 6 hours ago

because the previous generation were all robber barons that drained the world for their personal gain at the expense of the children they insisted on having.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 21 minutes ago

I watched my own father illicitly borrow millions of dollars by bullshitting other rich boomers, acquire vast acres of property across the country, promise the family he would pass it all down to us and our futures were set, then have everything taken away by courts as he and and the rest of my family drank themselves to death after snorting away every family assets on cocaine and other drugs.

I lost everything I owned after investing my time and energy into being there for my family and they just crashed out without any accountability to their next generation. Starting over in the middle of my life from nothing. I may never own property of any kind. I probably will never retire.

I feel like it was all just a microcosm view of what's happening broadly. The legacy of the boomer generation is going to be crushing us for a century to come or maybe forever.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 35 minutes ago

Can't wait to take care of them in their adult diapers too.

[-] [email protected] 34 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Been unable to afford a house since I first tried avocado toast circa 2008

[-] [email protected] 18 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Wages didn't increase at the rate of inflation for like 80 years. The USA is now a shithole country in general and emigration out has reached all time highs, kids don't want to buy homes here. All of the overseas investors looking to purchase US properties no longer trust in the USA due to volatility due to an actual dictatorship forming and heavy fines and tariffs being put in place by countries on either side of the issue.

I could go on.

[-] [email protected] 41 points 13 hours ago

Article title writer pictured here

[-] [email protected] 26 points 13 hours ago

My household income is well above the median in my area. Besides a bit of student loans, I have no other debt. I'm doing pretty well compared to most people my age, financially.

I still needed an FHA and down payment assistance to squeak into the cheapest house on the market that wasn't a trailer

[-] [email protected] 7 points 4 hours ago

I know a few millennial homeowners, and almost every one falls into one of two categories: they were gifted the home (or down payment) from a family member; or they married a Gen-X doctor in 2007 and bought right after the market crashed in 2008 and they've watched their home value quadruple since then.

That's it. Have family that's well-off enough, or marry someone that had money at the right time to exploit a financial disaster.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 minutes ago

I'm a millennial homeowner that had no assistance from my family and bought in 2022.

Honestly though, I think luck is the only reason we got our house. We met the previous owners and they wanted to make sure the house was going to another couple or family that would actually live in it and call it home, not someone planning to rent it out. We put our bid at asking price (even though our realtor was pushing for us to go higher) and they accepted it the next day.

[-] [email protected] 52 points 16 hours ago

I know no one really asked this question.

  • Average house price in Q1 2025 was $500,000.
  • $100k down at 6.5% with great credit and monthly payments of $3180 for 30yrs.

How many people can say they will have a job that pays that well for 30 yrs?

https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/ASPUS

[-] [email protected] 30 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

$100k down

Fucking LMAO

"Yeah, before you buy, we want an amount of money you will never have at any one point in your entire life before we consider thinking about suggesting a mortgage to you"

[-] [email protected] 16 points 14 hours ago

Oh....you poor bastard. Now you can pay the PMI and your morrgage will be around $4400 a month. You can save up $15-20k and refi when rates go down.

Welcome to renting for ever.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 13 hours ago

Unless you live near a major city. Then you double the price of housing.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 13 hours ago

Because those who make the rules don't want you to own shit.

[-] [email protected] 91 points 18 hours ago

WE ARE ALL FUCKING POOR

[-] [email protected] 54 points 18 hours ago

Probably the same reason megacorporatins are turning in record profit, year over year, and a very few people have increased their income by several billions of dollars, but that's just a guess. 💁

[-] [email protected] 28 points 17 hours ago

Don't forget about the corporations that are buying as many houses a quick as possible (faster than a person who will have a mortgage can) and at a higher price than what a person can/will pay becaue they are using them as investments.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 17 hours ago

Absolutely!

[-] [email protected] 142 points 20 hours ago

House expensive and job no pay enough.

[-] [email protected] 108 points 20 hours ago

People aren't paid enough. The rich have too large a portion of the resources.

Eat the rich. Bury their collaborators.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 4 hours ago

Stop the food waste. Collaborators can be eaten too.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 11 hours ago

Bury them where? I can't afford a plot of land :(

[-] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago

Ocean it is

[-] [email protected] 48 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

The worst part is that I am getting paid a salary I could have only dreamed about years ago, and yet I still can't afford anything with how drastically everything went up in price.

Wages in general have gone up a little bit, but it's crazy to me that I'm earning more than 5x as much as I used to 15 years ago and feel like my buying power has not noticeably improved at all. I'm still stuck living in crappy apartments because that is all I can afford.

[-] [email protected] 21 points 16 hours ago

Exactly! My partner and I together make over $100,000 a year and finally we are just barely comfortable. All of our bills get paid and even though the budget is tight, we still have a little money and decent credit. I could put a $1,000 guitar on credit and pay that off no problem, but there's no way we could get a house.

Maybe if our wages doubled then we could find something further out in the sticks. Hopefully by that time more companies allow full remote work because I already lose an hour or more a day traveling.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 6 hours ago

Companies demanding return to office is such a twist of the knife. It's a pay cut, making someone spend an hour or two commuting without paying them for it. But the boss doesn't care

[-] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Maintenance, gas, car insurance, more expensive food, tolls, parking, and time. It's a massive paycut for many people when you really think about it.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 13 hours ago

Because the common citizens will have more problems than buying a house after the Orange Goblin and his fellow criminals started to irrevocably dismantle the nation forever? 🤔

[-] [email protected] 50 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

oh we know why, it’s not a mystery to anyone who talks to the average american worker. we are criminally underpaid for our labor and it gets worse the younger the generation is. millennials are more poor than their parents’ generation, and gen z will likely end up poorer than millennials.

[-] [email protected] 42 points 20 hours ago

Homes are fucking expensive. I couldn't afford to buy a house in most markets at current prices. I have no idea how people are able to buy homes today.

Even my neighbor down the street...1st home for him, wife, and 2 year old kid. He tried to sell because he didn't understand how property taxes worked. The previous owner of 30 years payed 1.5K a year. He bought the home and was hit with a 15K tax bill. He couldn't afford it and thought his bill would also be 1.5K. The closing agent and real estate agent didn't explain anything to him. They were just happy to collect commission and fees on a very expensive house.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 12 hours ago

This doesn't make sense to me.

In my state the bank pays the property taxes. Its included in the monthly mortgage and goes into an escrow account for taxes.

I guess the rules vary by state.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

The bank usually pays taxes and Insurance from the escrow account. You pay into escrow every month. If insurance goes up, so does the amount you pay into escrow

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

That is only if your mortgage was written that way. I don't know if mortgages are "usually" written that way, but only my first mortgage had an escrow account.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Escrow isn't a requirement. The only requirement is that you pay your taxes and insurance whether you have someone else doing it or do it yourself.

What varies from place to place is how property taxes are calculated. Many places "lock you in" to a rate when you buy and only reassess when the property changes hands. In my state, the rate just increases by 3% every year regardless of whether you sell or not so nobody is hit with a big surprise bill.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 11 hours ago

Some places cap property tax increases per year, or even have a flat rate based on purchase price (or appraisal?) that never goes up… until you sell the house to someone new. Then the tax gets recalculated based on the current value of the house. So if the price of the house went up 10x in those 30 years, the tax is going to be 10x higher. It’s actually beneficial to the taxpayer IMO to have a consistent predictable tax that doesn’t go up over time if your neighborhood gets gentrified or whatever and home prices skyrocket.

load more comments (1 replies)
load more comments (1 replies)
[-] [email protected] 23 points 19 hours ago

A house is a huge liability. If i lose my job, what do i do about the debt? It's the job market uncertainty that i fear more than the current pay levels, tbh.

[-] [email protected] 20 points 18 hours ago

House is an asset. Mortgage is a liability. Having one without the other is now a dream.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 18 hours ago

Because the only part of the economy doing well is home values

[-] [email protected] 29 points 20 hours ago

I fucking wonder. Maybe I can ask Grok.

[-] [email protected] 26 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Grok: "It's the Joos. Heil Hitler!"

load more comments (4 replies)
[-] [email protected] 34 points 21 hours ago

A 7% interest rate doesn’t help

[-] [email protected] 16 points 19 hours ago

We bought in 2020 and have a 2.875% rate on our mortgage. We only put 10% down and had PMI but the broker was all, "you can refinance to get rid of that".

I asked him when in the world we'd ever be able to refinance at or below that rate? He had nothing to say to that.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 9 minutes ago

We bought ours in 2022 at a 4.15% rate with only 5% down and since I dealt with a local lender, got a conventional loan with no PMI. Thank God. The PMI was my biggest worry, but we were very fortunate.

Also found a house for under $300k, but it was built in 1952 and we're a little in the boonies. We have a Walmart nearby and some fast food, but that's it. We both work 20 miles away in the much larger town. And then we're about an hour or so (depending on traffic) from a major city. So we had to make some concessions in order to even get a house. Though I love being in a small quiet neighborhood and being able to live away from the bustle of a larger town, but it does have drawbacks.

load more comments (2 replies)
load more comments (4 replies)
[-] [email protected] 26 points 21 hours ago
[-] [email protected] 19 points 21 hours ago

Because of the increasing gap between wages and property values?

load more comments
view more: next ›
this post was submitted on 13 Jul 2025
185 points (98.4% liked)

News

30957 readers
2812 users here now

Welcome to the News community!

Rules:

1. Be civil


Attack the argument, not the person. No racism/sexism/bigotry. Good faith argumentation only. This includes accusing another user of being a bot or paid actor. Trolling is uncivil and is grounds for removal and/or a community ban. Do not respond to rule-breaking content; report it and move on.


2. All posts should contain a source (url) that is as reliable and unbiased as possible and must only contain one link.


Obvious right or left wing sources will be removed at the mods discretion. Supporting links can be added in comments or posted seperately but not to the post body.


3. No bots, spam or self-promotion.


Only approved bots, which follow the guidelines for bots set by the instance, are allowed.


4. Post titles should be the same as the article used as source.


Posts which titles don’t match the source won’t be removed, but the autoMod will notify you, and if your title misrepresents the original article, the post will be deleted. If the site changed their headline, the bot might still contact you, just ignore it, we won’t delete your post.


5. Only recent news is allowed.


Posts must be news from the most recent 30 days.


6. All posts must be news articles.


No opinion pieces, Listicles, editorials or celebrity gossip is allowed. All posts will be judged on a case-by-case basis.


7. No duplicate posts.


If a source you used was already posted by someone else, the autoMod will leave a message. Please remove your post if the autoMod is correct. If the post that matches your post is very old, we refer you to rule 5.


8. Misinformation is prohibited.


Misinformation / propaganda is strictly prohibited. Any comment or post containing or linking to misinformation will be removed. If you feel that your post has been removed in error, credible sources must be provided.


9. No link shorteners.


The auto mod will contact you if a link shortener is detected, please delete your post if they are right.


10. Don't copy entire article in your post body


For copyright reasons, you are not allowed to copy an entire article into your post body. This is an instance wide rule, that is strictly enforced in this community.

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS