[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 2 points 20 hours ago

True Never got anxiety from tea.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago

Me while drinking caffeine

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah that's the answer but like I feel so weird about it. Used to be easy when we were kids but now ppl have variable schedules.

Like my SO has to schedule calls 3 months in advance with friends and then they talk whe. driving. I don't think there has ever been a call where the friend was not driving somewhere. Another friend cant talk before 9 pm because of kids and we are in bed at 8pm. Its just one excuse after another.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 19 points 1 day ago

I just saw a video where they interviewing a person in America that was making home school content to make kids grow up to be "fine nazis". Apprently had comunitity of 2500 ppl.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 3 points 1 day ago

Not just that though. Cultist war Hawks got a hard on for leveling Iran for some reason. Lindsay Gramme been saying it for like 20 years. Unless he is also Israeli puppet in which case ignore me.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 points 2 days ago

Probably accurate statment. It was nice to see what family members were doing but soon as I stopped it stopped mattering. Though even if it was pretending, liking photos and commenting felt like some involvement in their lives versus the 0 I do now.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 points 2 days ago

Feels like they are intentionally screwing over ppl so that only the worst parents have kids. The right wing pos who dont care about quality of child life.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 2 points 2 days ago

Blessed is is the mind too ignorant to know doubt

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 points 3 days ago

A fact that we both agree. Birth control allows the freedom to get a career, find the right partner, and have stability before having a child. Few outside outside of the criteria you already mentioned wants kids without out those 3 things.

I wouldnt call it marginal. Nice chunk of the birth rate decline is teen and early 20's pregnancy . Which is fantastic as a child of a mid teen. No one that age should be a parent.

But rates for ppl that are 30+ are going up. Because they found what they need.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 21 points 6 days ago

To no ones shock. I saw some of the initiatives countires are doing and they are not strong enough. 500$ usd a month is not going to change someone's mind if the issues is affordability with ppl paying triple that for babysitting.

And if the issue is they just dont want kids its even more worthless. Add in a culture where you are a corpo wage slave that cant even enjoy being a parent.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 58 points 6 days ago

Fuck yeah.

Imagine if america built solar panels instead of bomb negotiation. But the american admin seems hell bent in making the worst choices. Good on china for showing how to do international policy.

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Best mom in Macragge (thelemmy.club)

Celebrate all the women that make the galaxy better today!

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submitted 6 months ago by Spacehooks@reddthat.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Basically title. Normally we put something "normal" like cocktail shrimp but what's everyone else doing?

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Spacehooks@reddthat.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

What kind of things could a person carry to sell and how if they ever had to forcibly leave?

I read diamonds are worthless second hand.

Solid gold seems legit but not sure if coins or jeweler is best.

I saw something about getting gold chains to trade individual links in a emergency.

Are there any other good tips?

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Edit: Put in a Consolidation effort based on comments and side research

  1. Jewelery is good getting through customs as some countries have limits on what you can take over borders. Canada for example has 10k limit before you have to delcare and it is not clear if per person.

1.a) Always buy jewelry you plan to wear anyway because you will not get full value back.

1.b) Buy from reputable locations. Looks like Mene was a popular one.

  1. Gold coins are good but get normal ones like Eagles, Buffalo, or Maple as it's easier to sell. Fancy ones are cool as collector item but will require more haggling.

2a) Bars are cheaper over spot but can be harder to sell overall

2b) Seems like libertycoin had consistent reviews.

  1. Cash is light but if your origin country currency dips then it's worthless.

  2. Crypto requires you to have your wallet seed and importantly access to a pc and electricity.

  3. Make sure to have a backup skil/trade to live off of.

  4. Transferring money between banks can have legal issues.

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House refinanced 3x (reddthat.com)

My grandmother bought the home we lived in the 90s for 90k at a 8% interest rate. I found out she refinanced the house several times from what seems like predatory practices and malicious advice and now owes 250k at 6%. Basically the house I thought was paid off now has 30 mortgage and she is 90. Her grandkids are in the will to inherent the house but do we inherent this mortgage?

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Spacehooks@reddthat.com to c/grimdank@lemmy.world
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Well after 10 years I just got banned by ADAfruit indefinitely for not shipping to my home address. I don't know wtf that was about. I think they banned both addresses so I screwed my friend over. Anyone know of any other alternative sites?

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