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I can fix her (media.piefed.social)
submitted 3 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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[-] [email protected] 64 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I once dated a girl for a while but we stopped dating because she was just too BPD for me to handle. The passion & sex were great, but the mood swings, lies, paranoia, etc. were just too much.

We remained friends though for a very long time. Went our separate ways but were always in touch. Eventually she got into drugs & dating real bad dudes, and I tried to get her to get a grip and stop the drugs & ruining her life. She ghosted me. Eventually she responded (or rather her boyfriend did) that she was in a psych ward for rehab. Our friendship resumed when she got out.

A year later she died. I met her family at the funeral, befriended them. One day I mentioned her psych ward stay. Her mom said she was never in a psych ward. She pulled up texts on her phone from the date range when she allegedly was in the ward.

The whole thing was a sham. She told me she was in the psych ward / rehab to get me off her back. The txt from her bf was just her.

I miss my friend dearly, but finding that out broke my heart.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

I'm sorry she couldn't accept your help. You have to forgive yourself. Some people cannot be saved.

[-] [email protected] 26 points 2 days ago

Lol, this literally happened to me once.

Long story short, a girl I knew but always figured was way out of my league expressed interest in me. We quickly started dating, I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. A few weeks go by and she just ghosts me. Nothing for weeks, I was going nuts. Finally I get a message from her, she had checked herself into the psych ward, and wound up hooking up with one of the staff while she was there.

Dodged a real one there...

[-] [email protected] 29 points 2 days ago

Hooking up with one of the staff? Yikes

I don't deny that you may have dodged a bullet, but I feel like the staff of a psych ward hooking up with patients is hella fucked up. Even if both people are adults, I think consent in that context is pretty dubious.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

wholeheartedly agree. I was but 19 years old though and less wise in the ways of the world. I occasionally try to look her up but have had no luck, I really hope she turned out ok. Been decades though.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

From what I heard its super common for psych ward staff to be doing patients. And yeah it can't be very helpful in their situation...

[-] [email protected] 104 points 3 days ago

"I can fix her"?

She can break me.

[-] [email protected] 18 points 3 days ago

Twice this year, it's a him but yes. They make borderline in boys too.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Let him go. Folks all the way on bpd bullshit just leave you wrecked until you decide to stay away. Maybe he'll get better, I've had respected friends and partners who did, but it ain't worth waiting for and being broken over and over in the meantime

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

I got phone time when I was in the psychiatric hospital…

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Yeah, I just had my phone the whole time. It turns out that completely cutting people off from their support network doesn't promote mental wellbeing.

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

It's Apsalar now

[-] [email protected] 64 points 3 days ago

She's probably going to need a good lay after that one.

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[-] [email protected] 29 points 3 days ago

Girls with grippy socks give the best blowjobs.

[-] [email protected] 29 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Men love BPD chicks because we'll be obsessed with them and could suck the paint off a trailer hitch but they act all shocked when they realize they need Steve Irwin level animal handling skill to not get their face chewed off and that they might just get speared to death anyway. My guy, do you want to live life on the edge or not?

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago

Girls with grippy socks give the best ~~blowjobs~~ footjobs.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

There are enough for everyone: https://cagedladies.com/

A lot of normal women who got into trouble, but also some crazy ones.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Many years ago I responded to one of these inmate pen-pal things. I did it because Susan Smith, the woman who pushed her car into a lake with her small kids in it, was one of the people on the pen-pal list. I wrote a letter, but got a boiler plate response from the prison about her no longer being on the pen-pal project due to an over whelming response.

I remember the profile she had though, discussing how she loved rainbows, and mini mouse

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Now thats a woman who doesnt deserve my conjical visits

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Considering the US penal system, I'd risk many are in for ridiculous things.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

Definitely. But a while ago, when I first saw this site in a post, I found one young woman who had in her bio that she was very submissive and looking for a daddy. When I looked her up, I found out that she was doing 8 years or so for sexually abusing a 12 year old girl. That's what I mean when I say that there are some crazy-ass bitches on that site.

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

This is literally me with an ex-girlfriend.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Psych ward is always best enjoyed together. Good for You.

[-] [email protected] 27 points 3 days ago

This is how you become the ghost.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Started dating a girl with bpd and have never been so excited yet so confused, my life is fucked now i think but she's super hot so whatever

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

She just called me to say she loves me then she called me an asshole and hung up

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

thanks for the update

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Convince her to go to DBT if she hasn't yet, it makes a hell of a difference

[-] [email protected] 19 points 3 days ago

How about not putting your dick in crazy?

[-] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

I don't think you understand the demographics of a psych ward. When I went (technically a pediatric one) it was 50% people who self harm and got caught, 30% people who are depressed and it got too bad, 10% overdoses, and only 10% 'crazy' people

a lot game from disadvantaged backgrounds and just didn't have the best start with abusive parents and shit and take it out on themselves. They just need stability and care, care that a significant other could give.
I guess I could be put into this category too.

the 'crazy' people were chill, they just talked to themselves and saw stuff sometimes. They're not like.. mean.

the 'crazy' people that you are probably thinking of aren't the ones who go to the psych ward. They say that they're normal and blame others for their issues. They're the ones who don't want to be associated with people with depression and bipolar syndrome so they don't seek treatment for it and get WAY worse than if they went to therapy instead of drugs.

It's also worth noting that the 'crazy' people you're thinking of aren't past saving. They need help too. They probably started off with a bad background and weren't taught how to take accountability and coping techniques. It's just really, REALLY difficult to admit you need help and to go through the process of getting it.

People do recover and should be given assistance, assistance that the American system doesn't give.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Thanks for the perspective

[-] [email protected] 42 points 3 days ago

crazy people need dick too

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[-] [email protected] 31 points 3 days ago

Counter point: have you ever put your dick in crazy? Its awesome.

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[-] [email protected] 30 points 3 days ago

Stfu mentally ill people deserve affection as much as anyone.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago

As a mentally ill dude I would like to trade the disgusting affection for a 1991 Fiat Polski.

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