I keep telling people of all cisness / transness that there are a LOT of cis women that don't pass. In healthcare you see a LOT of people in various states of dress and grooming and sometimes I remind my coworkers that they wouldn't look a whole lotta femme without their wig and makeup either!

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Get as much support out of them as you can stomach. Try to at least graduate a trade school if you can (some trades will let you get started in high school and be halfway done or even graduate with your qualifications). Say and do whatever you have to (within reason) to use your shitty family to get to a point where you can reliably pay your own rent and other bills needed for daily life. Then move to a new address and change your number and don't tell them the new ones. Un-add and block them on all social media, email, etc. Pick somebody you actually like and trust to make your emergency healthcare decision maker and beneficiary on any life insurance policies or bank accounts (just don't pick a romantic partner, you're too young to know who is and isn't an idiot in that context). Then go to therapy and stop talking to people that are mean to you.

I was gonna say, those beans aren't horny, they're being molested.

In a significant part of the world being a boobs guy is perceived as infantile cuz, y'know, that's what they're for.....

if my husband doesn't start posting pics of me in paranormal today we're getting divorced.

right like lowk he and the dude on the left are already traditionally attractive and the right just still looks like a kid prolly just needs to grow into it.

didn't notice a huge difference at the time but I work in a high reliability / safety industry and I can tell a difference when I forgot to take it and I keep a dose in my locker at work because I can NOT do my job safely without it and I'm on strattera which is a glorified antidepressant (sort of not really). I'm not even on the good narcotic shit.

have been going around showing this to my coworkers. you've made 3 RNs laugh so far.

yeah you basically never wanna do psych stuff in an ER unless the behavior is unsafe enough that they're likely to end up there anyway. The only psych interventions ED staff know how to do is emergently drugging a person unconscious which is rarely necessary. You more likely want some kind of specific psychiatric crisis services but you still need to be able to communicate effectively enough to let them work out a basic safety plan because if you go in with "I wanna die nothing will ever get better and you can't talk me out of that" they're gonna get you sent to an ER, which as stated, is less than ideal.

sock/sock shoe/shoe because I put in my socks in the bedroom but don't put in my shoes until I get to the closet by the front door.

I made myself a password generator where you input how long the password needs to be, + other requirements (length, number, special characters (there's an input box for which ones are allowed) then it subtracts the number / special character from the total required length, chooses a random combo of 3-7 letter words that will make exactly the required length, then adds back in a random number and special character and capitalizes one of the words. Probably not as safe as a completely random password but waaay easier to remember. Would probably be way better even from someone who knows how to actually code because I know juuust enough to vibe code something small like this for personal use the only programming language I actually know is turtle so I understand the basic logic but not like. Syntax or anything.