[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 17 hours ago

Seconded. Or piefed needs to add microblogging.

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Excellent question. There are some foundational skills the dog needs to be able to participate safely and effectively in the process. This process was also accelerated by the cat being a ho for human attention, making it easier to transfer some of that affection / prosocial behavior.

Cat train the puppy for safety

  1. leave cat claws untrimmed for a month before getting the puppy and at least 6 months in
  2. Dog was crate trained so unsupervised interaction was a non issue
  3. Distract puppy every time her gaze locks onto the cat for more than a few seconds (message: cat = not interesting)
  4. When dog learns belly, teach her to do it whenever the cat is <3ft or so away

Habituation

  1. Use treats to slowly lure them closer to each other (note: dog must have a solid grasp of "leave it" / be able to understand when a treat is not hers
  2. Alternate petting them including alternating which hands are petting them respectively during the same interaction. Specifically try to rub their respective scents on each other near their faces / snouts. The cats scent is best obtained from the cheekbones, while the dog's scent is usually easy to obtain anywhere on them. I did find the dog liked to lick my hands, so I would rub her saliva on the cats cheeks (it helps to know and leverage exactly what your cat considers a "high value petting.")
  3. Group cuddles: what you see here. Everybody keeps getting treats as long as you're willing to sit in the cuddle pile. Never ignore or discourage spontaneous attention seeking behavior from either animal in this context.
[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 day ago

One of the interesting things I've found while reading through is that while there's a lot of minor sins mentioned once each in the old testament (like mixed fiber clothing) the one commandment that is mentioned more than any other, like almost word for word with every repeat is keeping the Sabbath. And many of those repeat mentions also specify that it applies to your workers / servants as well. Even if they're not also Jewish, it's a sin for you as the Jewish person to not give them their rest day. Idk I just found that super interesting especially in this modern context of modern US Christianity flavored capitalism.

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[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Unless it's a private practice, it's probably not the psychiatrist that wants to use that tool, it's probably an initiative on the part of the larger organization. There's good odds that the practitioner themselves is even against it themselves. That said, this sounds like one of the lower risk use-cases; what you're describing is more of a souped up dictation software more than it is truly generative AI.

TLDR; don't let this stress you. Do what feels right for your own care. And, ultimately, keep your own records and notes about your own symptoms day to day vs what treatments you're trying at any given time. Also do your best to educate yourself on what the meds are supposed to be doing, especially what symptoms (not disorders) they're supposed to be treating. Taking the initiative to track your own care in detail is what's really going to get you the best results anyway.

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 days ago

I’ve seen it before. Never seen it work out, but I have seen it.

It's also almost universally something that the people involved cannot take outside advice on. It seems to be one of those things that must be experienced personally.

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Yeah the industry has just kinda accepted that surgeons are just like that lol. A lot of hospitals are settling for just getting them to stop shanking the circulating nurses with spare scalpels. Honestly I used to work with criminally insane men so I could probably grapple a surgeon. My issue with OR was that it's too cold and I couldn't scratch my nose when it itches. Also ortho surgeries in particular are a sensory nightmare it was like a soundbyte of a dwarven mine from a fantasy movie on loop for eight hours just –ding ding ding CLANG ding ding ding CLANG ding ding– I could not.

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I forgot to buy a tiny dollhouse stool this year anyway (to put in a specimen cup and send down to the lab). No one has time for the old traditions in this economy...

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

It refers to a preference for "natural" things. The kind of people who make their own peanut butter and grow their own veggies etc.

Like most things it's a personality trait that's cute and sweet when they're putting in the extra effort as a gift to another human–"I recently aged my own cheese and it came out really good; here's a sample to try!"

vs the nuisance of people those who use it as a measure of puritanical superiority–"you can't even keep a sourdough starter alive? It's not even hard! It's like you don't even care about the chemicals in store bread!"

Honestly I'm even over "people don't realize that having the time to keep a sourdough starter is a privilege because–" you don't even need to think that much about it. Literally anything can be harder or easier or a privilege due to the infinite complexity of the universe. Just stop assigning moral value to random behaviors by default. Eats the soul on both ends when you could be plotting the downfall of wealthy pedophiles.

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

It's not uncomfy. I find most pressure on that area is largely interpreted by my senses through a strong contextual filter and I perceive the context as neutral-beneficial so it doesn't really bother me.

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Hubs just alternates what he calls me regardless of which one of us is domming at the time. Not all who wander are lost ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

I finally grasped the concept by internally translating it as his/her Highness as in–"does her Highness want more tuna? Her Highness seems like she wants more tuna."

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by Apytele@sh.itjust.works to c/dreaming@lemmy.world

...and like every single one of the moms is convinced they can outpace the curse half. But like half of the kids come out as straight axe murdering psychopaths. Like the mom wishes for the kid to be a math prodigy or whatever and they decide to lower the grocery bill by murdering all their siblings.

And there's one kid that doesn't come out murderous but he does keep setting shit on fire accidentally. He's horribly distressed because it's all completely accidental and no one believes him. Winds up in the hospital cuz he can't take it anymore. Finally turns out he just has to be in the water all the time. His mom wished for him to be an Olympic athlete and he came out an Olympic swimmer not even because it made him good at it but because he couldn't leave the water. The curse literally left his guilt in by design.

Also it turns out his mother was the only person to actually pass her trial. Like they all have to do something like not eat for a month and they all snuck in a cheat meal or whatever because somehow they thought the curse wouldn't "catch them" or something. Hers was literally to sit 100% alone in a 100% featureless concrete underground room in a chair for three days and not even touch the floor and she actually legit did it. Like she overdid it and accidentally did four days because there was no clock like she had to guess when she could come out and she wanted to be sure.

This fever dream is brought to you by me running out of clonidine. You're welcome.

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You could run a local instance for a school or whatever and initially let the kids only talk to each other then slowly let them out to access a list of safe instances as they get older and learn more about internet safety. Might teach a healthier relationship with the internet.

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He says "that's not why I sent you that; I didn't even think about that until you said something!"

...Sir.

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Let's grow some piefed, my peeps (if I didn't love the sh mods so much I'd probs have switched by now I'm so eyeing this project LOL)

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It's the end of the second season. Idk if the decision to air an mpreg episode was made before or after the series cancelation decision but it's definitely A Decision either way. Whether you watch it or not I feel like more people should know it existed.

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by Apytele@sh.itjust.works to c/lemmy411@lemmy.ca

So I've really been enjoying a lot of cheap jewelry on my days off and I really liked these slip-on false nails (it's actually a really fun stim like putting bugles on your fingers and clickety clacking them and tapping them on things) but they keep popping off the metal tabs on the rings and sometimes they're a lil uncomfy so I was trying to find little foam discs to put on the underside of the nails over the metal tab part of the rings that they're superglued to for extra structure and comfort but I can't find any small and thin enough. These ones are kinda small enough but they're still about 2x too thick and all my attempts to trim / thin them have gone poorly. The diameter isn't an issue that's easy enough to trim down but I need thinner ones (and without glitter, a bunch of them are craft supplies with glitter which would be very messy and scratchy). Any thoughts? Here's some reference pics with what I have now and the thumb and pinky nails for scale.


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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Apytele@sh.itjust.works to c/piefed_meta@piefed.social

I'm very excited to switch when I can microblog to my own profile!

See also: The FediGram and discussion of general fedi iconography.

~~I think I might make the strips thicker and the dots bigger.~~
I made it chonkier so it would look better as an icon

Optional Blueberry Version:

Old Cherry Version

Old Blueberry Version

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I'm rewatching inuyasha and have no one to talk to about the fact that Kagura should have lived and by doing so the entire Sessh/Rin weirdness could have been completely avoided. Like I have trouble picturing Kagura pregnant but that doesn't mean it couldn't happen and half the time in fairy tales of all locales the kids pop out of the dad's migraine or some shit and honestly they'd also make amazing godparents (or whatever the equivalent is) to a half dozen adopted mortals and their bloodlines. I'm mad about it and commenting on ao3 fics for this fandom is like screaming into the void.

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