Some will to live.

You reminded me to add something ty

It's a somewhat complex topic with a lot of individual variation but generally speaking:

• it's going to have whatever significance it has to you personally. It's an event in your memory and is wholly subject to your brain and it's unique structure and experiences.
• it doesn't have to make sense, and such experiences are, famously, the hardest to make sense of.
• fortunately dignity is also an intrinsic / internal quality and very possible for you to regain.
• highly recommend EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) to help you process the event towards something less distressing in a controlled, supported, and slightly accelerated manner.
• EMDR can be a bit rough / drag stuff back up and you have to be ready for that. If you're not ready for that you will probably still get some relief from other modalities / styles provided you have a therapist who's a good fit.

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One on each side if you can manage.

When I worked medsurg as a CNA while I was in school sometimes with real old dudes I had to throw their nutsack over their leg as they sat on the toilet to keep it from pinching or falling in the water. Boys, wear supportive undergarments while it still matters.

From a psych nurse, DO NOT directly tell him to stop doing the delusional / maladaptive thing. Do not give the thought pattern the chance to practice protecting itself. Just offer the better thing on it's own in a way that doesn't directly challenge the maladaptive behavior. If you challenge directly it will only get stronger. I don't have good tips on specific activities because that's gonna be so locality specific I just wanna share some tried and true wisdom on how to introduce when you do find something.

Hubs and I are ND asF and have all kinds of weird sex including nonmonogamy at one point. I'm still the husband in this meme most of the time, but sometimes he's the husband in this meme. If you think you never miscommunicate, odds are you're a REALLY bad communicator.

She still wants attention from us. Hubs calls the feeder "wire mother."

The big thing is the consistency of the timing makes her a lot less anxious. She also still knows he's ultimately it's manager because she'll go find and yell at him if it fails to dispense food.

yeah when I do decide to stop wearing cheap shit I'm probably gonna do sulfur patinated silver. Unsettlingly pale with dark hair and other accents is kind of my signature look but it's hard to create a contrast with a bright metal. And I want something that's going to be relatively easy to reapply at home but that's a little more durable than simple enamel. I can already tell which ones were coated properly vs which ones were just enameled, which is wild amount of variability in quality considering they were all like $2-3.

I'm just not sure where I'm going to get this amount of variety / character out of actual proper jewelry metals without going 100% custom and that's just not within my means currently. I also have to get mostly split / resizable styles since my fingers are exeptionally skinny, all those split styles you see on the forefingers are brought down to like a 4 from a 6-8, and some of the other styles are split on the underside (which is less ideal since they pinch when I grasp things and I like the split to look intentional where possible)

I also have removable nail cover rings but one of the pinkies popped off the ring and I'm waiting for a friend to make me some custom acrylics anyway. would be super cool to have some solid metal ones someday but again, not feasible right now.

Keeps people from stealing yo girl.

Unironically my husband would love working at one. Food service is his preferred trade, but as an introvert if you took out the service part, he'd thrive.