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submitted 2 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

He's always wore sketchers. Like since he was 4. Recently, he got really emotionally taking about shoes he wanted for middle school. He said if he doesn't get Nikes he's going to get teased. Great fucking marketing work Nike.

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[-] [email protected] 15 points 17 hours ago

Kids are very materialistic.

When I was in middle school, I was probably the worst for me with the bullying. I came from a family that didn't have a whole lot of money. Like even the cheap stuff we had to cut corners with. And well I was fully aware, that there was no real difference between what I had and what they had, it didn't stop the consistent bullying. And the teachers never cared. The other students didn't care in fact some of them would chime in too. And when that's your life for several hours a day 5 days a week... You eventually just get to a breaking point.

I'll never forget the day I basically had a complete emotional breakdown because we were doing back to school shopping at Target, and I saw one of those trapper keepers. With a weird designs on the outside. They were all the rage. And it was like eight bucks I think. My mom did end up buying it for me, but only because her soon-to-be 5th grader, collapsed in the isle crying. I don't remember what I told her, but all I could think about was having that was going to make life just a little bit easier for me.

Kids can be real assholes to other kids.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

Same for iphone. Fuck Apple.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Look up cost of living back during the time you are thinking about and what the money used to be worth back then I guess

[-] [email protected] 10 points 17 hours ago

My school everyone wore the same uniform. The only choice we could make was shoes or sandals 99.9% chose shoes. Sandal wearers got so much shit for it. It was a death sentence.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 16 hours ago

Kids find a way

[-] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

I blame the parents and schools for not doing anything about bullies and teasing. I was in the trenches as a kid, I remember all the Jack Shit they did back then.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 22 hours ago

Teach your kid to kick some teeth out with his Skechers. I have a feeling that your kid is going to get bullied no matter what he wears.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago

One of my good runner friends (3000+ miles a year and owns 100+ pairs of shoes) is the biggest sketchers fans I know of. Apparently their good running shoes aren't even cheap anymore, like $110+.

I imagine these kids aren't wearing super shoes anyway, or else they would know the puma's are faster

[-] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

I think that says more about inflation than Skechers. Even cheap shoes are expensive now.

[-] [email protected] 27 points 1 day ago

The solution to bullying is to do as the bully says /s

[-] [email protected] 7 points 21 hours ago

I was unironically told that I should "keep a lower profile" if I want to avoid being bullied. I spoke to nobody and hugged the walls walking from class to class. I don't know how much lower of a profile I could keep.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago

Same. The principal and vice principals at the last high school I attended were also the football coaches. Going to them about how the jocks were kicking the shit out of me for being too nerdy and queer for their tastes got me that same "just keep a lower profile" bullshit from the highest authority figures in that dump.

[-] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago

It seems to be working for America right now.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Good luck fighting 200 8 year olds

[-] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

I’m not saying anyone here wants to fight a y number of 8-year-olds, but how many do you feel he could take?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago

Depends on how angry they are.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

LPT If you back down a narrow corridor, make them come down single file, you can take them one by one.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Easy as an adult, not so much as a kid with a similar age

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

Buy him a crowbar.

Ultimate tool against bullying

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[-] [email protected] -1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Congrats, there’s a good chance you just bought into being part of the problem. Your son is probably now a card-carrying member of the group that teases other kids for being less than.

[-] [email protected] 31 points 1 day ago

I don't know if this is a bad idea, but recently all the Chinese manufacturers spoke out about how much the products they make actually cost, you can find the exact warehouse that makes them, and order directly from them, at a ridiculous mark down. Like a 10th of the price, or less. Might be worth some research. I see Adidas sambas for $10, including postage. They're all there. They just don't have the actual name label on them yet, because that's all they do when they reach the distributor, though, so might be useless to you.

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[-] [email protected] 44 points 1 day ago

Happened to me. Got Nikes, got teased because they were not a good enough model. Kids are monsters.

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[-] [email protected] 216 points 2 days ago

It's not a Nike thing. It's a kid thing. Kids are dicks, sorry

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Instead of getting him 300$ shoes give him the choice of the cool shoes or the latest coolest video game or the shoes, or whatever hobby he enjoys…

Kids tease other kids because they themselves feel insecure.. that’s literally all it is… if you need Nike shoes to feel secure you’re probably not a cool person anyways

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

The shoes are probably not $300....more like $100. And the kids goal is to not feel socially ostracized, not to spend money frivolously.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

It’s not worth it but give your kids whatever sheltered life you want

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Kids tease whomever they perceive as weak.

If he get the shoes, it's the wrong model. If he get the right model, it's his hair color. Etc.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

The kids who tease have severe insecurities, they are dodging and deflecting and pointing at other kids so that no one looks at them

They do not tease folks perceived as strong

[-] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago

Probably true. That would explain why those bullied are so eager to join the bullies when the bullies set their sights on somebody else.

Or, as the saying goes, Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo, buffalo Buffalo buffalo.

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