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[–] [email protected] 64 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Equating communism with the common ownership of women. First as tragedy, then as kink.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's "held in common", not "being publicly owned". Bit of a difference in the connotations there, especially given that polyamory tends to openly reject how monogamous relationships tend to intertwine intimate and property relationships, or how lesbianism rejects the hierarchies built into heteronormativity, or how kink replaces implicitly coercive power dynamics with affirmative consent and voluntary boundaries.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Held in common just means cuddling is very common πŸ€”

[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 month ago (1 children)

People aren’t held in common, property is.

Really dislike the framing of this even as a joke shitpost

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

he was so ahead of his time with this shit. pity it wasn't really upheld as an important aspect of Marxism by a lot of our faves (hey we're doing the socialist family, oops it's the nuclear family again), and we sadly still have a long way to go. Cuba at least is one place making strides in this area with their new family laws.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (5 children)

You heard it here on Hexbear folks, monogamy is classist

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Monogamy will always have a place for the very simple reason that:

  1. Polygamous relationships means more in-laws, both from having more than one partner and each partner having a possibility of having more than two parents.

  2. Nobody wants to deal with in-laws.

Imagine having to juggle around 9 in-laws (3 partners with 3 parents each). Fucking nightmare fuel.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

only if you kitchen table it, there's lots of ways that polyam relationships can be arranged. plus in laws are only a problem if they're a problem, some people's parents are chill.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Making a dating app that matches you with orphans to overcome this issue

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

In that society the parents would also have polyamorous relationships, so imagine having 8 in-laws from one side. And they are all crusty.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

The difference between in-laws and outlaws:

Outlaws are wanted

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Vultures? Bourgeois. Bald Eagles? Reactionaries. Skinks? Fascists

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Arrogant Guinea Fowl? Owls with Shifty looks?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

This but 100% unironically.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Kind of? Humans are not as monogamous as other actually monogamous species.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

I wonder how that conversation went
(as the eldest son): hey dad you can't get with any more ladies anymore okay? why? *looks at dad's wealth* because.. uhh.. you just can't okay!? maddened

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

Communism is soviet power plus the transfeminization of the whole country.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Harden your heart, o Qin Huangdi!
Increase your attacks so cruel!
Send them all to live with me
In an enby sapphic polycule!

(refrain)

|: Qin Huangdi, do your worst
To the cis boys to make them thirst :|
For the selfsame HRT
Their bourgeois state withholds from me!

(refrain)

|: And I sing to Qin Huangdi:
What, pray tell, do you want from me? :|
And I assure you this is not a bit,
Nor am I a feckless hypocrite.

(refrain)

[still continues]

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

Mandatory pet kink huh?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

But the REAL question is, is our programme to be written in rust or C++?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

It's gotta be Rust, my man.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

R5RS Scheme

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

And then we must coerce those women into becoming scientists.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

And here I thought monogamy was invented by detective fiction writers so they could easily make up tons of murders

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Always love being ahead of the curve

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago