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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Really nervous about the clothes I bought online.
We couldn’t find anything good at the store so idk how well they will fit me.

I’ve never bought a woman’s dress shirt before and I keep just seeing in my head a picture from when I wore a men’s dress shirt before I got on hrt that I hated how I looked in and I’m scared it will look like that or worse. madeline-scared

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Couldn’t find a skirt but I found this sickass Sonic mug

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

damn you got to be real skinny if you could wear that as a skirt

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Maybe it's like a 52 gallon drum and the perspective in the pic is just real fucky

[–] [email protected] 33 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Huh. I'm realizing that if I were to die tomorrow, I'd actually have a problem with that. I think this may the the first time I've been able to honestly say that. Neat

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 days ago

it's fantastic isnt it? meow-hug

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

There was this gossip website I used to browse that I can’t find anymore. It was largely comprised of older queer people who would gossip about Hollywood from the Golden Age to the 80’s.

It was from them that I learned the rumors of Mickey Rooney secretly visiting glory holes and Walt Disney possibly having a fling with a starlet.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

i finished I Love Amy and it was fantastic, very glad that i picked it up - 10/10

but i need moooooore! are there any other (completed?) yuri recommends i can source from the mega?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Mage and Demon Queen is great

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

I have no recs, just wanted to say that I also loved I Love Amy.

(i also need more)

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 days ago (5 children)

testosterone tuesday injection reminder meow-knife-trans

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

spoiler

wake up
suffering
it doesn't stop

Please let it stop. I'd give anything. Nothing works. This is inescapable. Life is just horrible for me I guess. I don't deserve this.

Why did I have to be born like this. Why did this happen.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago

Literally no skirts at this mall lea-why

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

Only getting two hours of sleep was probably not ideal, but I do love being able to earnestly call myself God's Sleepiest Princess.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I just finished the first set of paperwork to get a court ordered name change! I mail it off Thursday. I'm excited! flag-non-binary-pride

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Money longer than KD's feet

dracula-flow gangster-spongebob

bawllin-sad niko-dunk

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Money got longer, speaker got louder, car got faster

dancing-roach

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Top shelf zaza disrupted my circadian rhythm

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

Call me Ben Simmons, cuz I don't play at ALL

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Are there bras you can buy from a store without getting fitted for one?

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

You should be able to go to any underwear store or Walmart style store and pick bras off a rack without trying them on. That'd be a little fool hardy, you should try them on cause undergarments are usually not returnable, but you could do it if you know your measurements. Or if you just want a bralette.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Look at you hacker, a pathetic creature of meat and bone, panting and sweating as you run through my corridors. How can you challenge a perfect, immortal machine?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

On roller skates, dats how

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

sorry I was distracted. was fighting a psychic monkey who shot a fireball at me

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

Hi, Vsauce, Michael here.

But how can we challenge a perfect, immortal machine? And, more importantly, how much does it weigh?

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Lots of exciting developments happening lately. I got my FFS surgery officially scheduled and it's less than a month away now. Electrolysis is going well; my upper lip is almost clear (at least for this growth cycle) and my facial hair is visibly reduced in most areas except chin. I bought and used an epilator for the first time and though I was worried about pain at first, it's honestly nothing compared to what I've been going though every week with electro. I'll be starting speech therapy for feminization soon. I've been more social in 1 month than I was for all of last year, and I've already started work on (further) radicalizing my new friends. Oh and I'm like 99% sure I'm going to get the job I really want that I interviewed for recently, mostly because my resume was put forward by the boss and have other recs from inside the org supporting me.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If no one has said it yet: I'm very proud of you

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

You're making me tear up a little catgirl-cry

Thank you, I really appreciate the encouragement meow-hug

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 days ago (3 children)

ranting about gebderI used to think being trans was some kind of horrible curse but the more I lean into it, I don't just love the idea of it more, I love myself more. Life would have definitely been easier if I was born cis (of either gender) but I don't think I could have the perspective I do if I never thought about gender the way I can now.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

Absolutely. I didn't always feel the same, but I really appreciate being trans now. If I had the choice to reincarnate and choose how I come back, I think I'd want to be trans again.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

spoileryeah my opinion on it ranges anywhere from "god this sucks" to "okay, actually I kind of like having a broad chest". No matter how bad my opinion on it gets at any given moment, I don't think I've ever truly felt I was in the "wrong" body. Some women are trans. This has always been true and always will, and I'm one of them

I really wish I could get pregnant

I really wish I could sound like a cis girl

I wish I didn't have the broad chest and long arms of someone who didn't go through T puberty

but at the end of the day, I cannot say that any divine mistakes were made made. Venus made her daughter exactly as she was supposed to be

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

spoilerYes!! If I was cis I probably would never have explored my gender at all and missed a whole dimension to life. Being around genderqueer people is also so nice

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago

horniI need a new chew toy
Hurry up and come over
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[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I've been keeping a transitioning journal ever since my egg cracked months ago and it's funny how shortly after I started HRT, it went from lengthy, emotional reflections on my life and thoughts about gender, to brief rudimentary and primitive phrases. they used to be one, if not multiple paragraphs, but the last two are just "booba itchy" and "so fucking horny rn". it's like in a horror game when you find logs from characters documenting getting infected and turning into a zombie, but instead of getting the T virus, I'm just turning into a girl.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago

"T virus" would be a great name for our first puberty. POG-19

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My hair is the longest it's ever been and I love it. I'm also wearing more jewelry, accessorizing is just very fun

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

Glamorous! β˜†

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

tldr: catgirl-flop

still complaining about work sorrymy first office day sucked ass so i called in sick today. i got there, forgot what floor we were on so kept visiting different floors until i found it. opened up my laptop, wifi wouldn't connect so missed my morning meeting. IT guy helped me find a wired desk. service desk guy misgendered me (i feel like intentionally? he was kinda rude from the jump and i was in a very femme outfit using a not-perfect girl voice). and i spent the rest of the day overstimulated, cold, uncomfortable, and super fucking anxious. i mean the office was bad pre-transition but now i'm just so on-edge i can barely even do any work

i've just had my penultimate psych session where i got him to explain my diagnosis in a letter. if that doesn't work i'm going to quit, the main reason i'm staying is because i really like my team, there's some (measly) trans benefits offered to 1+ year perms, and i'm dreading having to find another job

every single time i talk to someone about wfh they talk about how much they missed the social connectiveness of the office and how lonely they felt but i just don't get that. i know there's people that are more affected by RTO than myself and i know i probably sound privileged asf but i just can't do this shit 3 times a week. i don't even think i'm leaving the house that often outside of work...

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