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[–] [email protected] 57 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Yet only one CEO πŸ€”

[–] [email protected] 33 points 5 days ago

Education system is truly broken

[–] [email protected] 45 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The year ain’t over, and I’d bet money that the shootings ain’t, either.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Won't most American schools be on their break by now?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

Next week for us.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I'm guessing roughly 1 a day.

I want to add, it's not shocking. It is impossible to afford any kind of real mental health care. $50 sessions for a therapist are only worth their weight in gold; only if you can afford it.

If you or your child needed therapy you are looking at ~7 hours of minimum wage once a week in order to afford it assuming you have insurance.

We don't take mental health seriously in the United States.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

school shootings, more like 1-2 a week.

Regular mass shootings are up to 8 in a day.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Actually, @[email protected] is closer. There have been 323 in the US this year which makes it 0.93 school shootings per day or 1.79 school shootings per school day in the US (assuming 180 school days a year)

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

They're running with different definitions, is all. Given every school shooting is highly preventable, either number is valid.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Unlike other data sources, this information includes gang shootings, domestic violence, shootings at sports games and afterhours school events, suicides, fights that escalate into shootings, and accidents.

Using this wide definition is clearly muddying the waters of what is colloquially known as a school shooting. Those words make people think of uvalde and Columbine, indiscriminately shooting many of the kids. Suicides, accidents, etc are MUCH different and implying they're the same is actively harming genuine discourse on the topic.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

Exactly my thoughts. 80+ is already a horrific number, it's not going to make people more likely to act to artificially balloon the number 3x. There could be 1000 school shootings in one year and I doubt the US people or Govt would do a thing. They actively choose this every day.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

My numbers are coming from the K-12 School Shooting Database. They probably use different definitions. The stat I was going by was just what I saw most articles in my country going by (Australia).

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Even with therapy, its often an issue with the home environment that cant be mental.health.care'd away. Often theres a raging psycho creating a shit environment and making everyone crave for them to just fuck off and let them live and thats often exactly what everyone needs

Psychos dont tend to pursue non-flattering diagnoses and admitting their imperfections or straight-up schemings

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Well, Israel and Russia are trying to claim some room in that space, but yeah, it's still probably "most of them".

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Part of the reason we left the US. Our city had a terrorist attack (by a Muslim so instead of a mass office shooting it was deemed such), we had an acquaintance who was killed in the Las Vegas concert shooting, and our kids should was locked down 9 times that year for fear of gun violence.

It's Koo Koo land.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's quite difficult to emigrate unless one has significant fiscal privilege or is already politically and culturally connected to another country.

If you're willing then please share why you chose where and how you were able to effect it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

Not the person you're responding to but I did the same thing for in part the same reasons.

We had significant fiscal privilege in that we were old enough and willing to go into debt enough early in our lives to purchase a house before things got stupid, and each time we moved we sold the house for a profit. We are renting again in our new country (New Zealand) until we build back up and get at least permanent residency (can't buy a house here unless you're a PR). Buying a home was the most stressful and most impactful thing financially, but that's not feasible now for most people.

We got lucky enough, and purposefully saved for escape for 10 years by living with things that weren't comfortable (concrete floors for years rather than replace water damage, going above and beyond to keep electricity and gas prices low even at the cost of comfort, working too much to put money into savings and neglecting family, no eating out and limiting grocery budget for last two years, pulling out ALL investments like 401k to make the final push and starting from scratch in our new home, etc.).

I can tell you it was all worth it. Live below your means (while increasing your means incrementally), beans and rice rather than packaged foods (balanced with how much your time is worth), make every sacrifice with a clear goal in mind. Like I said, it takes years, and you're operating at a disadvantage just because we did this starting 12-13 years ago when prices were significantly different, and average wages haven't compensated. We have kids, so the other benefits were things like the child tax credit increase in 2021, which gave us unexpected increases.

I've seen people do all this just to have to go back to the US because they didn't scope out their landing enough: make sure you know how much you need to survive in your new country, know the cost of visas, limits on what you can earn in your job, know what jobs you can even fill based on visa and qualification restrictions.. and then plan for having 5-10% more in total liquidity than you think you need. Things change, accidents happen.. in our case our kid had to have emergency surgery the week before our flight, that same day our car died so we couldn't sell it for as much as we wanted, and a year after arriving they increased the cost of visa renewal by over 100%. Luckily we had planned for things going haywire so we were still able to escape.

It's not easy. I wish you all the luck in the world. Sorry for the novel and basically saying "be born earlier and get lucky" πŸ‘€

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Wow...just wow. But other countries have it rough too. In the last 50yrs I witnessed more than 2 power outages that took over 30mins, close to an hour to fix. We're not perfect either 😁

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I mean, I get it. A drunk guy has been stealing our Christmas ornaments one at a time off our front store window...

...the fear is palpable

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Just the other day someone left a wine glass on a wall near my house

The hedonism is out of control

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

What's that? I can't hear you. I think I'll go get my hearing checked with my socialized medicine and not go bankrupt.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Sorry for the delay in replying. I genuinely injured my thumb πŸ˜‚

After the x-ray, the echograph then being referred to a specialist all in one day, I truly don't know how I'll recover from the €55 bill

Oh wait, I just did

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

Oh jeez. How is one supposed to recover from that?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I had power out with a newborn for like 5 days in the winter once.. 30min sounds nice.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Oh man,that is horrible. Where did that newborn come from? Must've been aweful to have one for 5 days.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Power company was giving them away. It was weird they all had a musky smell to them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Oh man, no thanks. The dark I can live with, but some sudden surprise stinky newborn? I gotta draw a line there.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

Good'ol minor "collateral"

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago

Anything you'd like to share with the rest of the class? I remember seeing a number like 300 of 400 at some point

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

So what's official number?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

According to this article by ABC, there was 323 school shootings and in the US this year, down 26 from last year.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

That's crazy 😧

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

Cool, now you know how billionaires feel every single day

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Nothing they can do about it!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Have they tried "thoughts and prayers"?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

That's not the solution. We need more guns. Since there are more guns than people in the US, I would guess the shootings would end when we have 2/person. Or maybe more powerful guns or twice as many cops. I'm really not an expert on this.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I think I hear about a school shooting about once every two or three months. And, I believe underreporting at a national level paired with myself not having time to keep up means that I hear about roughly one in every hundred shootings.

Typically there's about 180 days of school per year.

Crunching some vague math, my guess seems preposterous: ~340 school shootings in 2024. That's almost two per day. But, the more I thought about it the less preposterous it seemed.

TL;DR - My guess is a seemingly preposterous 340 school shootings in 2024, or almost 2 per school day.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

323, according to Google. Idk if that includes yesterday's.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (2 children)

It's fallacy fallacy. I got close to the right answer for highly-questionable subjective reasoning that's barely better than luck.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Not bad for a guess! I was floored, by the number.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 days ago

I don't have the heart to make a joke here. I'm just tired

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

Feel free to crosspost to [email protected]

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

Is it 2024?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago