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Howdy! This is a comm for new and old users alike to introduce themselves and what their hobbies/interests are. This is also a good place to ask questions on anything you'd like to know more about, and generally to get acquainted with Hexbear and its users.

Rule #1: DON'T DOX YOURSELF - Don't post/comment any personal identifying information. Obviously it's ok to talk about yourself, but make sure there is no information that could potentially lead to doxxing yourself.

Rule #2: BE NICE - Assume everyone making a post here is doing so in good faith. Keep in mind that people introducing themselves may have limited knowledge of site history, in-jokes, etc. Also keep in mind that new people might not have the same understanding of leftist theory and/or knowledge of global politics that you do. We were all there once, so it's not a bad thing to be reasonably understanding and patient with new folks. Likewise, for those who are introducing yourselves, please have an open mind, be willing to interact and make friends, and don't come here with the intent to start fights.

Rule #3: DON'T BE A JERK - Any sort of transphobia, racism, homophobia, ableism, or other forms of bigotry will lead to an immediate ban. Similarly, harassment, being a creep, "chaser" behavior, or anything else done to make others feel uncomfortable will be dealt with harshly. Also try to keep any fediverse drama to a minimum. It's assumed new users are posting here to make friends and not to wade into any previous or existing conflict between instances, so please be respectful of that.

Rule #4: TRY TO BE HELPFUL - It's encouraged to help newcomers wherever possible, including explaining various aspects of this community, providing helpful resources, sharing similar interests you may have, and suggesting comms that they may be interested in.

Rule #5: USE CONTENT WARNINGS - For anything that might be considered a sensitive topic, please use the spoiler format along with a content warning to give people a heads up on what is being discussed.

If anyone has any feedback or any suggestions for improvement to this comm, don't hesitate to reach out to the mods here. Thanks!

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Got doxxed on T*tter and then followed to Buttsky. I'm hoping that I can just totally start over here. If I recognize a fellow escapee I'll reach out and say hi!

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Hi and welcome. You should definitely change your profile picture immediately, for security purposes. We take that much more seriously here and for good reason

Just wouldn't want you to get doxxed

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yeah. This is a online shitposting platform, not Twitter nor Bsky... she should rlly keep low-profile

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago

I mean there's a 100% chance we are all being profiled by feds no need to make it easier for them

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It's interesting in that regard to see the evolution of sites that descended from older "normal" social media and those that originated in more shitposty anonymous forums. Only for us all to meet up again

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Welcome, comrade. cat-trans

But just a fair warning especially because you’ve been doxxed in the past: Be very, very careful with private info (including posting pics of yourself). Fascists have and will use that to harm you if you’re unlucky. Even one of the admins was targeted this way and had to leave the site.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sound advice. I've never used my own pic before, and this one is from after I graduated college. It wasn't the worst type of dox, just some guys from college who didn't like that I was now hotter than their girlfriends.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The admin I was talking about was pretty careful with his info, yet it still happened. So please don’t underestimate the willingness of certain people to hurt you.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Also, you aren't the only user on here to use a picture of themselves, one of my favorite posters does that as well.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Welcome! Yay new people! Bluesky must really be fucking up lol

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

After the takeover of Twitter, I'm pretty sure people are highly concerned about potential trouble creeping in and repeating the pattern on BSky

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Welcome!

We've got a pretty decent mod team in regards to keeping trouble out. It's not without it's flaws, but the site demographics skew to majority trans. You'll be safe here

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago

seconding whats been said so far. That said, hello and welcome to hexbear!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hi and welcome!!!!!! catgirl-heart

I used Twitter a long long time ago and got tired of it. Started an account on Bluesky but never really used it. I think the only social media I really use is this site (been here since it moved from Reddit and it’s pretty addicting tbh), Discord, Matrix, and VRChat. I probably spend the most time these days on here or in tracha (the trans matrix chat here - it’s an extremely fun/cool group).

Any questions about the site so far? Don’t hesitate to ask if you do.

Thanks again for being here and I hope you enjoy the site as much as we do cat-trans

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I can't clear out my inbox to zero even if I read everything!

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

You have to hit the check mark to clear it. It’s a little annoying they don’t disappear immediately, but at the same time it’s kinda nice if you want to hold onto a message to respond to later.

Like this:

Hope that helps!!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago

omggg ty, why didn't I see that!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

I was up to 200 before I finally cleared mine

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

The only reason I even created/have a completely annonymous twitter account with no posts at this point, is to follow geopolitics and news related to that because a lot of information is still posted there and journalists still use the platform, the rest of the website seems like a toxic cesspool that I have no interest in. The website is so obviously artificially manipulated by Musk I don't even understand how it's functional anymore. Haven't tried bluesky yet, but looking at new user activity on here, apparently it's also ended up in the gutter. Sorry to hear that you got doxxed, that's terrible.

Welcome to our weird and crazy (in a good way, I promise) corner of the internet. Hope that you enjoy your it over here.

If you're looking for mobile apps to use hexbear, we're based off a platform called "Lemmy", so any Lemmy client application should work. Some popular ones are "Boost for Lemmy" and "Jerboa for Lemmy". Some hexbear custom features, like the emote picker and setting pronouns, might not work correctly though.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

RSS still works for Twitter, but you have to use the nitter instance set up by some fascist reactionary and that asshole temporarily blocks your IP if your RSS feeds updates too much. So the choices are creating an account on a social media site run by a fascist or using RSS feeds on a nitter instance that's also run by a fascist.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Still dont really understand what the deal is with bluesky but happy to have you here trans-heart

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