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Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

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[โ€“] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago (3 children)

In the hospital for my top surgery. Iโ€™ll see all you folks on the other side :3

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Blessings of big boobs upon ye

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Omg, good luck, I hope it goes well :3

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Are audio cassettes making a comeback? I've bought two new albums recently that had the option of getting them on cassette.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes. It's terrible. Sometimes I want a CD and all they've got is a cassette. doggirl-tears

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I may have have ordered one cause now I'm curious...

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

But do you have a cassette player??

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (4 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

my partner has a cassette deck in his car. I bought him a 2 Mello cassette, which he loved, but unfortunately the cassette jammed up eventually and wont spin anymore. Since it's sealed (no screws) I can't really get in there to repair it without re-shelling the entire thing.

It was great while it lasted, but instead now I just record cassettes myself using new-old-stock ebay cassettes. So good so far, and it pays him back for driving me around since I hate driving in this town.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I had a cassette deck in my first car and found a bunch of cassettes I wanted to listen to at a thrift store. Sadly half of them didn't play properly and a few more failed or faded over time. But for a while my friends and I were able to sing along to The Lion King soundtrack when I drove them places.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

yeah, I learned the hard way that buying used cassettes can be kinda hit or miss, one I found at the thrift had the pressure pad come completely off after a bit, so I guess the adhesive just wore down.

Partner still has Big Shiny Tunes 3 though and it plays just fine haha

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah it's so much easier to tell if a used CD will still work than tape or even vinyl records.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

true, my only reservation about CDs as a medium is specifically about CD-Rs, which iirc have a pretty short lifespan.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Welp, I can no longer get blood tests for my diy doggirl-sweat my gp doesn't want to do it unless I start the process of trying to get meds the legitimate way, but i'm not willing to suffer through the shitty, extremely transphobic gatekeeper national service to maybe after like 3-4 years get oral or transdermal hrt when it's much more convenient for me to do injection monotherapy and not have to be on an anti-androgen.

Idk what to do, even though it hasn't been hard for me to get my test supressed and stuff I would feel a lot safer if I could just get routine check-ups every few months.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

Try a different clinic

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

Yup, my GP said the exact same thing.

Trying to figure it out myself.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

Anyone know any good spaces or accounts that talk about classical tailoring type shit for transfem people, like sports coats, dorky scarves/ascots, non-denim trousers type shit?

Most of what I find just casually searching is heavily geared towards transmasc people instead, and a lot of transfem fashion tends to lean either very feminine alt or harder butch.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

immaturitysmegma is such a funny word. like smeg as a syllable is already top tier but the ma elevates it

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

This sounds like something my sister would say

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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

oh hey it's my contribution to the site taglines

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

can i subscribe to your newsletter?

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

708 notifications... gee whiz

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

hosting a megathread is very good for inbox related activities

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

why haven't you cleared them...

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

because i like when number goes up and i dont have upbears visible catgirl-flop

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

ok... i guess i will allow it

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

we have the best mods, folks a-little-trolling

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

Since I have to wait on the estrogen to arrive again I was thinking of already taking the bicalutamide I have.

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

depressionWas trying on writing a thing linking me not enjoying smut because I'm asexual, along with only really snjoying it because i long for companionship. it just kinda turned into me being really sad. Got depressed, had a few panics attacks. Gonna try just going to sleep. Also need to get a new psychiatrist because they last few I've had all sucked and I haven't had someone to talk about my problems (and fail to provide solitions) to for months.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Getting home from work and reading one piece in a miniskirt and heels just because

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago

good vibe, I have trouble dressing up out the house so sometimes I look awesome at home instead

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Next time you could try reading miniskirt and heels* in a one piece just because

*This is just a bit, not an actual reading recommendation

[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

today in adventures in being out at work

guy comes up to me and while i'm pretty used to being called "sir" because of my barely trained voice, this guy called me "sir" before i fucking said a word to him agony-deep, so I just took a mental deep breath and responded to him in my best femme voice I could muster. I think I could feel that it was at least good enough to put him on his toes because the rest of the interaction was kind of awkward and he never called me a man after

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

this guy called me "sir"

"I'm not a "Sir"! I work for a living you damn muppet!!"

in your best drill instructor voice

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Based, unlimited gender expression warfare on the cis

My dream is to cause such gender awkwardness among them that their reductive and mechanistic conceptions of gender simply shatter :3

Or something lol

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I'd really like to simply be gendered properly as a woman by strangers but for the time being it's just going to be unlimited funny looks at my nametag until i can get my voice training down

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