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Not including your butt

I get irritated and say "don't touch my fatty bits" when my partner does it and it makes them laugh so they do it more

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 month ago (2 children)

They do it because they think your reaction is cute lol.

I agree though if you tell them not to they shouldn't.

I dunno, maybe they don't think you mean it?

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 month ago (1 children)

NOO NOT MY FATTY BITS

(I get jokingly irritated, it's fine but I can't let them know that soviet-pout )

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

That's adorable, relationship goals fr wholesome

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Safeword so they know it's not part of the scene.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

If you genuinely don't like it, then tell them in a serious way, not in the moment.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

No. I have self image issues.

I think it might be an issue for me if I asked my partner not to and they kept it up. Maybe that’s why I suck at relationships.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

I do and it doesn’t bother me because I know he thinks it’s cute and I just like being touched. But any time you set a boundary about being touched and your partner disrespects it, that’s a no from me, dawg.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

Yeah, but we're married so it's not like I'm holding anything back from her anyway

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

I let 2 of my partners do it but not the other because they do it weird. Poly life

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

She calls them chubbly bits, but yes

It's mostly because I am super ticklish

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I've only ever dated big girls, and all my exes have loved when I grab their fatty bits. I just think their fatty bits are super cute so I'll caress their tummy while we're snuggling and stuff like that. Fatty bits are beautiful and deserve to be treated as such