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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

Why is the title different?

We like to have fun here.

What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.

What are the basic rules of the community?

  1. Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.

  2. This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.

  3. Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.

  4. No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.

  5. Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.

FAQ

I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?

What can I post?

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I apologize for a bit of a delay this time around. @[email protected] will be taking a hiatus from Hexbear to redirect focus to local organizing efforts. For the time being, I will be taking over the posting of EM POC weekly threads.

With that aside, how's everyone doing? Any exciting news, funny memes or stories, or interesting takes? We'd love to hear it all!

Remember, EM POC only!

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

5th date with my (now) girlfriend led to sex dog-screm Im thankful that my first time was with such a great person and that it was honestly really rad. Gonna see them again later this week.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

You did it, Compy!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

party-sicko congrats! happy for you comrade

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Been following this for the past couple weeks, proud of you

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Hell yeah comrade

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago (3 children)

the em_poc thread should steel chair it up and get more comments than the news or trans megas

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I agree, but Hexbear has a lot of white people—its roots on Reddit mean there’s a ton of them. Hexbear might be queer (which is very cool) but its also very white ...which is kinda cringe.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Lemmygrad might have some more POCs

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Indeed, I think some actually posted here (eg. Makan, Rania/Aru, frauddogg, you)

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, GenZedong also had a greater POC to White ratio. Shame they never moved to hexbear

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Well, I'm here now... though I must say that most Lemmygraders don't post much to reach even 1k on their own platform's megathread...

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago (3 children)

After getting dogpiled by white liberals for pointing out how Kopmala weaponizes her intersectional identities to trick marginalized groups into supporting fascism, I am completely fucking done with white liberals. No patience for them anymore, I don't want to talk with them or humor the lie they tell about us, that they are my friends. Friends don't shit on friends for objecting to genocide.

They want a white echo chamber, they can have it

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

Something something disappointed with the white moderate something something foxes and wolves.

They haven't changed in the 60 years since Civil Rights, where they had been even more useless than the century before.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

You've repeated this phrase many times... a loading error possibly?

That being said, yeah, anyone who supports Kopmala, at best, doesn't care about genocide, at this point... agony-deep

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

"Many times"? Shit, must be a loading error. Possibly my mobile app is acting up :( I'll go try to clean it up from desktop and remove duplicate comments when I can.

Edit: oh yeah now I see it from mobile too, wtf. Deleting them now. Thanks

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've given up on trusting white people. Settlers should be required reading for the POC left. It'll save us so much disappointment and heart break.

There was a Twitter thread where an African American woman said that a tweet by a Palestinian American woman was "threatening" and got the whole soup of liberal crackers and the feds after her. Really endangering her life in the process.

The tweet was about how kopmala was coming to Chicago and how pro-palestine Chicagoans were ready for her.

It was cracker after cracker spewing the most hateful islamophobic nonsense at her that ultimately got the feds after her. Just straight up political intimidation.

I will never trust a white "leftist", "progressive", liberal in my life. I really thought things were going to change this time around. It didn't.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (8 children)

That's heinous. Downloading Settlers right now.

There's really only a small handful of white leftists -- leftists proper, not liberals -- I can fully trust, and the dividing line really seems to be where they fall on Palestine and the Democratic Party. If they support Palestine and want the highest echelons of the Democratic Party tried for war crimes, they're cool. If they waver or try to soften those stances at all, then they're really just liberals.

My (¡white!) partner warned me: "don't trust those white liberals, don't talk to them, don't try to pull them left. They're dangerous and they'll snitch on you as soon as the empire tells them their safety depends on wiping out the Left. I know you've seen what white people are like when they're attacking marginalized people, but I've seen what they're like from the other side. It's inhuman. They have no souls." I didn't listen. I should have listened.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I'm deeply satisfied with how I was able to comfort my darling 💚 through a very rough moment last night. Her happiness means everything to me. Not only do I love it when she smiles, but I greatly love contributing to it.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thanks, Anhel, for the new thread!

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

TF2 is woke for having an alcoholic handicapped black scottish mercenary

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

Back in the day most gamers just went along with it. These days the usual suspects would loose their shit over a black scotsman kinda funny (sad)

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Im really happy for you. You know that I have been rooting for you since the start.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (5 children)

At this point I just have a vein pop up on my forehead whenever I'm casually talking about my home country for one reason or another and a yt person segues into talking about tourism. Bonus points for tourism of my country. Double bonus if they call it "cheap". Tripple bonus if they've already been there and tell me about things they've done that I could never afford to do there myself

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

The only redeeming part of those conversations are when they brag about how they got something for cheap when in reality they got absolutely fleeced lol

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

most jokerfying is when they say something like "everyone there speaks english much better than other foreign countries!" kombucha-disgust yeah because it was a colony of the US for a long time (and unofficially still is)

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

yeah because it was a colony of the US for a long time (and unofficially still is)

Hmm...yep, sounds like my nation-state, in its history

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thank god we don't get tourists over here

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I decided Im gonna post a bit more of my life in this thread. Me and my girlfriend are planning to stay together over night this week. I think its important to see if you can spend some "real" time together and not go on each others nerves. I just wanna spend more time with them. Every time we met ... I wanted to spend more time with them after they left.

My girlfriend is pretty good on some topics like race, gender, Palestine, capitalism. Despite being from the imperial core.

Will post more as I have time.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

Looking at the amount of posts in this mega and the trans mega (I post in both) got me thinking about how cracker-core this website is.... thonk It still is one of the few places on the internet that isn't blatantly racist on a regular basis so that's nice ig, but damn. Reddit demographics I guess shrug-outta-hecks

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My Twitter and tiktok are started to sound similar which is annoying because I would use 1 to decompress from the other. I think it's all just election season related which means it'll be terrible for longer than I can endure. Maybe this will finally kill my phone addiction.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

i don't use tiktok, but the few times i've been on twitter have been increasingly worse than the last. like at least with reddit i kinda wanna read the reactionary slop, but with twitter i just cringe then close the tab

i would strongly advise you to stop using at least twitter, if you can. even lurking it gives you brainworms or smth lol

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Friends, give me the real skinny: how racist is tiki culture? I like how the funny cups look and I like fun colors and flowers.

What's a not racist alternative to this?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

There are some tiki bars that don't do "tiki" Polynesian culture. But those are rare and very new, just trying to avoid the potential backlash while keeping the drinks.

I guess it's actually total cultural appropriation. I know the aesthetics are taken from different Polynesian cultures and the drinks are Caribbean rum drinks, but, damn, I think it's fucking awesome. I love it. I would prefer that than some boringly sterile White ass mixologist, craft cocktail bar. It's a shame tiki is such a White space too but, I don't know, something about tiki feels so much more comforting. You feel like you're hanging out on a nice beach, who doesn't like that? Maybe it's my own culture I project into it but I enjoy it.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

Another week has gone by of not painting anything and having to listen to me mum's nonsense q_q

Maybe this weekend I'll play some paper Magic, but we'll see how my anxiety is doing.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

rest up comrade

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spirit-bomb Lending you some energy there, comrade

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Time to actually do the list...

With that aside, how's everyone doing?

At least for me, fine, though acid reflux be fucking me up

Any exciting news,

A fella hexbear, LargePenis, is betting whether Israel is gonna get another military response by the Axis of Resistance's leader, Iran, and its other fellas

funny memes or stories, or

Nuffin'

interesting takes?

Thinking of one...

Edit: Cambodia, as a socialist project, was salvageable, until Pol Pot and his reactionary pro-peasant faction decided to override and purge the pro-Soviet and Viet-aligned factions of the Communist Party, and inevitably decided to cause war against Vietnam, in 1977-1979, in order to 'return' to 'primitive communism'

Read Cambodia, 1975-1982, by Michael Vickery, if ye want some understanding on what I'm talking about.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Came across this YouTube video of yet another black YouTuber going to Harrison, Arkansas. You can tell it’s mostly white people pretending to be black commenting.

“he’s not racist. Just old school”- about a literal kkk member.

Or “I’m black and he’s not racist.”

White Americans have this vision that you aren’t racist if you spend time around poc or even fuck one. The only racists are people running around hurling slurs and violently attacking poc.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)

How's everyone doing?

I'm doing well, been trying to just focus on my physical fitness and skill improvement. Trying to retrain myself for employment purposes.

Any exciting news

I getting back into fighting games and I found a really cool POC/Queer community for fighting community. Lots of these katz are really cool and great at teaching systems and mechanics.

interesting takes?

Because I'm having to retrain myself I find myself reading about corporate jobs. I am thoroughly convinced that private tyranny is something that has been thoroughly normalized in our society. I find it so strange that everyone must do exactly as their employer says or face starvation. This isn't a new insight, but I do believe it's worth talking about always. As a worker/proletariat/regular dude, I think it's always important to focus politics on the regular everyday stuff, and I think a lot of regular everyday stuff gets overlooked because of how normalized it is. It’s really fuckin’ wack that private tyrants have made the idea that democracy only happens in the “public” space, and the “public” space is getting privatized more and more every day.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

While back watched all of the Latino dub of DBZ, pretty great but trying to watch it through official channels like Netflix left me wanting. Maybe Crunchyroll gots it but I ain't paying for another subscription. Really brought me back to my time in Mexico when I was younger so that was fun not to mention it's pretty damn faithful to the original even if they keep calling the solar flare kaioken

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I had a ghost burrito. I distinctly remember having a burrito in my fridge, but it vanished. I probably ate it, but I can't say for sure that something supernatural isn't going on.

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