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alright gang, we need another win over the news mega this week! keep those numbers up and keep being trans as hell 
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CW: Family Drama
My parents gave my sister an ultimatum: she can get back with her abusive ex, but she can’t do it under their roof.
She just left and they are changing the locks 
my list of gender envy sources and transition goals is literally every woman ever except also Kazuma Kiryu is thrown into the mix for some reason
spoiler more horny
Also holy fuck I want a vibrator. Why must I be this way I'm dying aghhhhh alsnfsjkgs
:::horny
Oh my god chat I want someone who makes me feel small so bad :hyperflush: jesus just the thought of it
As some of you know, I am thinking about coming out... maybe not immediately but I am thinking about it. One of my big worries is them not understanding, and doing things that might hurt me without meaning to (am fragile ) Obviously I can explain things to them, but I don't want to have to explain everything. Its hard enough being a baby trans without having to explain everything to a cis person.
So my question is what resources would you recommend a cis person read/watch/whatever to better understand a trans person? I'd look at anything you suggested as well obviously, and with that I'm sure explaining would be easier, but being able to offload some of it would be very nice. Any recommendations would be appreciated
Added concerns
They are christian and probably think I'm going to hell for this. Not that I care what they think about that, lmao, but also they haven't pestered me about going to hell in forever (I'm a bad girl who was already going) but just to give you an idea where they might be at. But they're the like, "gays are going to hell for living in sin, but that's their issue to work out with god" kinda christian if that makes sense. I don't know, anything I can give them to help them understand and alleviate things a little for me would be really nice.
writing cover letters 
thing i just realized the other day
it is extremely unusual for a five year old to be enthused at the idea of dating women someday, right? those are not thoughts a cisgender five year old should have
Just started playing Minecraft (mobile/bedrock) for the first time in a while. Started a trash dwelling and found a diamond but lost it. Hot take: maybe I’m just a noob but hostile mobs suck. I often cant relax due to my lack of peripheral vision irl. It’s worse in game especially with even worse vision. I like seeing when it’s dim/dark irl. It’s miserable in game. Im significantly more safety conscious in Minecraft than real life. Real life: fuck it I don’t need directions I’ll find my way if I get lost. Fuck off with harnesses and railings. Minecraft: yeah, gonna add a railing there, tons of signs, torches everywhere. The controls aren’t great but they’re acceptable since I’m not used to better ones atm.
no harm in playing on peaceful, i often do. i much prefer being able to chill 
Me irl: fuck rules and laws I do what I want
Me playing games alone: oh no am I violating my own expectations for how this game should be played without “cheating?” I shouldn’t do that.
I wrote two and a half cover letters today and I'm tired. Going to have fun doing DIYs now, that's enough adulting for one day.
they were cowards for not making the hobbit 1 movie, and then you just have a 2 part 10 hour duology of a dude who just explains the Silmarillion to you with a power point
pretty sure my body conquered the cursed tap water i drank yesterday. i don't feel great but i'm good enough to function today and that's all i need
Why tf am I getting FOMO about posting 
Okay, I'm logging off fr, today has been stressful as hell and I'm gonna do something relaxing instead for rest of the day
i love playing my tabletop game with all my gay ass tabletop friends. we have literally one cis man and the rest of us are trans women
I know I haven't been waiting that long, all things considered, but my god this sucks. Just sitting here, waiting for shit to happen. Some of it is stuff I just need to do but haven't bothered with, and some is figuring things out, but AGGHHHH! It just hurts, and sucks. I hate living as a guy and I hate how little real life affirming stuff I can do right now. Trying to be patient.
For context, my plan to get clothes will not work right now (for reasons I don't really want to get into).
me looking in the mirror: "wahhh i don't look feminine at all why is my brow so low i need a brow lift"
You could try raising your brow by not furrowing it like you're doing a Kazuma Kiryu impression all the damn time
me: "no"
light surgery discussion
First laser hair removal session for bottom surgery done! Honestly? Not too bad. Doing the face is sooo much worse.
Little worried that I started the hair removal at a bad time, as I will not be able to have another session until late october due to another surgery happening in that span of time. Agh hope it will be fine. Worried that I just fucked up.