I wish I could just jump forward 10 years and have already worked through all this hard stuff. But no I gotta slog through it and barely make any progress ever.
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The hard stuff is what's going to carve you into what you want to be.
Imagine yourself in 10 years giving advice and guidance to the younger transes, explaining how hard it was.
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I wanna remove all the fuckin pubic hair I have. Is it weird that I don't mind having fluff on my calves or underarms, but anything in the crotch area needs to go NOW??? Because I haven't shaved anything else since I posted about it months ago, and yet.
My wife keeps saying, No Ash, don't try to epilate your junk, it'll hurt! And I'm like yeah, and I'll probably get welts and shit. But what if I just do it anyway???? Razors do not get me perfectly smooth, and you're not supposed to use Nair skrrrt...
So what's a normal dose for Estradiol Valerate? I feel like they gave me a pretty high dose? Either way letsssss gooooooooooo! I have to wait until tomorrow to get it but I'm already so excited.
would it be a bad idea to get a bird feeder or 4 for my balcony if there's the bird flu thing going around? ty.....
thoughts on going to an all ages outdoor general pride event wearing pasties and a sheer/mesh top? if it wasn't clear the concern are the children or whatever
If it were me, I'd keep it PG-13 if it's an all ages event. Not sure if pasties fall under that in my eyes.
Does anyone know about HRT in Cuba? All I can find is that it's free, there's a DIY scene, and there are government shortages. I want to know if the age of puberty is equal, whether you need real-life hazing, etc.
Edit: OK I did a pretty thorough search of Cuban websites and online scientific journals. I don't think this information exists online. Damn you Cubans! Stop touching grass!!
Settling into my new place and enjoying our backyard that the previous tenants turned into a little veggie field.
Put myself together a cute little gardening outfit from the clearance aisle (jeans were too short but otherwise perfect). My partner was gassing me up and even I sorta thought i looked cute despite not shaving for a few days.
Unfortunately my back is a fuck and I can't work for longer than an hour or two.
dysphoria talk
The outfit was really super cute but god I'm realizing exactly how fucking much i hate my shoulders and my upper body in general. I think it's partially because I have such messed up posture, my upper body is just so fucking wide I can't stand it.
Also the lower half of my face is too goddamn wide. I think from a distance or in the mirror it's not too bad but seeing myself in photos i feel so shitty, I think it's making me really want to try for FFS asap, but I can't afford to take time off to heal so It's not really accessible until I get sorta financially stable.
The silver lining is that my eyes and lashes are so goddamn pretty actually. When I have my bangs properly styled I really like my face from the nose up. It's the one thing keeping me going right now.
needlessly gross
taking hormones and washing them down with gatorade so i lactate blue
Very annoying that I can't shave my legs, cause it's too irritating, and also can't use IPL, because my hair is too bright for it to work. I guess I'll have to live with long pants for now, and practice body positivity.
I just hit PMS for the first time after starting a new SSRI. Holy fuck are the symptoms like 10x worse than they ever have been. And considering I have PMDD, you can imagine how fucking bad it is. I feel like I'm one minor issue away from absolutely losing my mind. This shit is not fun. In fact, it's making me contemplate secluding myself for the next 4-5 days, which I can't do cause my mousy wife's birthday is in a couple days.