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[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

oh god i don't even know how i'm going to manage the second puberty emotions, i'm already having trouble dealing with the ones i have now

volcel criminal shit right herethe thought of "oh my god you can have a girl ass" crossed through my mind at work yesterday and i felt like i needed to lay down holy fuck hyperflush

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[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

An old jacket of mine I really liked doesn't fit anymore and it's got me feeling some kind of way. I can wear it, but when it's zipped I can't breathe lol

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

two-wolves-1 inside of me there are two radically different trans femmes and they're both trying to win me over like they're trying to call over a puppy to see who the dog REALLY loves two-wolves-2

edit: oh i think these are OCs come to think of it. fuck. i guess this is a thing i have now clark

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[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Found an informed consent clinic that is "near" me but takes video calls so I don't have to wait months for care hopefully. Just keep getting too anxious to call them to make an appointment

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

All of the yeses and maybes on gender diverse survey is really uplifting. I love reading about everyone’s personal experiences with their gender. hexbear-trans leslie-shining

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[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

last night I had a dream where something that isn't possible happened and it felt so real. it was wonderful in the moment, but I hope I never have that dream again 🫤

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

I woke up at 4 AM from a nightmare that a shadowy organization had broken into my house and confiscated all my estrogen vials and it took me several minutes to realize it was just a dream cri

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Discussion of slur reclaimation, I try to avoid reproducing slurs but I gotta here and there so CW slurs, 4ch discussion

Something I had kind of memoryholed until just recently is that the kids, broadly speaking I guess under-20s, are trying to take back the t-slur! I have seen it in a Black Dresses server (surely the most apt place for this to happen) and also on tumblr generally. I'm pretty sure people do it irl too.

This isn't new for the trans community, ofc; if you read the ultraclassic Gender Outlaw(Bornstein), or indeed Trans Liberation(Feinberg), you can catch people identifying by "he-she", "f*ggot", "transvestite" and many other quaint slurs, and generally I think I support the motion to reclaim the t-slur. It seems like /pol/ and the gang have had to move onto the etymologically poor, far less effective "tr**n" as a substitute, slur downgrade, which is what we wanna see.

I have permanent brainrot though, like some of those /lgbt/ brainworms might never come out. I've tried using it for myself and such once or twice, but it's just burned into my brain as a 4chan thing, and all I can remember is getting bullied by tripcodes and called AGP and stuff on /mtfg/. Classic.

It feels kind of lame, because I like "dyke" and "queer" for myself, and while I wouldn't use "f*ggot" for myself, it doesn't touch any nerves. But that stupid blue board ruined my mind, and I'll forever be unable to get with it, I guess.

Uh thoughts if you have em? Idk how old or young the average age skews here =) Curious for other people's takes on this specific instance of slur reclaimation.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

ネタバレI honestly have zero desire to try and reclaim. It would honestly take an immense amount of effort. It would also require being capable of gathering a significant amount of folks that are okay with being called such words. I, personally, think they should be lost to the sands of time and not rehabbed. They are despicable words with despicable histories. We should just find new words.

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