thinking about a friend from high school who i said a lot of eggy shit to and they said a lot back at me. wonder how they're doing?
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I agree, you don't wanna railroad people into a specific identity, but gender is inextricably social. This "prime directive" shit treats gender like some atomized, wholly internal, thing. It's based on this idea that mentioning transness at all might corrupt some pure, internal process of gender discovery.
And frankly, that's some fucking lib shit. Instead of this "prime directive" nonsense, you can just present the option to people, and be a supportive friend. That's millions of times more helpful then this coy, anxious, silence.