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I do sometimes too. I used to a lot more often. Part of why I find it so frustrating is because I used to do it and I recognise now that it didn't help me at all in the long run.
Also to be clear I don't just mean needing comfort sometimes, everybody needs that and it's good to have friends who you trust and are comfortable with for that. I mean very specifically the ignorance of boundaries (seriously cannot emphasise enough how frustrating it is to set one "please don't come to me about this subject I will not be able to help you with it due to my own flaws" and have people just, insist on it anyways.) and the unwillingness to work on yourself. For the latter the comfort is never going to amount to anything without taking that extra step. something something "no one is ever going to save you if you don't try to save yourself" something something. It's cliche but mental stuff is actually seriously important and you really do need to try to push yourself to get any better. At least I did.
Yeah that's gotta be very uncomfortable. People need to understand that big sis is just 4 years older than you, she ain't your professor.
Have to say this to my self every day