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Anal and prostate play is like the most tame normal thing ever, foot stuff and rope are kinkier and those are pretty tame.Presumably you would have no judgements against anyone doing either. Maybe some internalized stuff going on? Or yeah, just bottom dysphoria.
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Oh I certainly wouldn't judge anyone else for it. And I didn't used to feel this weird about it. I think part of me is feeling put out that it's not immediately pleasurable, whereas in the smutty stories I read they'll start losing their minds from how good it feels. It feels like there's something wrong with me that I can't properly enjoy itspoiler
it takes a bit of practice and getting accustomed to butt stuff for it to get into super pleasurable territory, especially if prostate O is the goal. you have to learn how to relax down there and it has to start to feel natural for the great feelings to come. start with small sessions and manageable toys. a dildo you can take is great for getting used to the feeling, even if it might not hit the prostate. prostate O is kind of something you graduate to after getting quite accustomed to regular old in n' out motions. it's fine to have it as a goal but you're not gonna get there from beginner in a handful of sessions, more like a few dozen. for now try to go in with the goal of getting used to the sensations and relaxing your body around it. toys designed to hit prostate like the lovesense edge are meant to be great. but first step is getting used to having stuff up there. kegels are good too, practice breathing out when relaxing from them and build the muscle memory.
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Mmm yeah the one toy I have is only kinda meh so upgrading would probably help. I just wish it didn't take so much effort :(spoiler
Also poppers work and are safe. Sometimes it's hard to relax down there and discomfort can add to shame, dysphoria etc. Poppers really helped me have amazing receptive anal sex at times.spoiler
Are they really safe? Looking it up there seem to be plenty of side effectsspoiler
This is not medical advice. But I use them occasionally with no issue and they work well. I've worked with sexual health doctors in my career who've recommended them to people.They are a drug with risks and side effects like anything prescribed, illegal or over the counter.
Due to historical homophobia/transmisogyny we don't have a prescription version available like we do say viagra (which you must never combine with poppers).