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submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) by Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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[-] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 23 points 2 days ago

user with a history of transphobia feigning ignorance to run defense for a known transphobe ultraleftist slop youtuber? just a normal day outside of the trans mega on hexbear. more purges now!

[-] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Oof, what happened this time? ISTG this shit has gotten more frequent over the last months.

Edit: nvm, it's been that asshole.

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

Oh is this latest person a repeat offender?

Yeah, he called me a transvestigator for respecting the gender identity of a dead, unouted trans woman.

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Oh shit I remember that. Honestly this person should just be banned atp.

So fucking depressing how little people, even here care about us

[-] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

100%, his is one of those "how is this guy not banned already" modlog histories

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 2 days ago

I don't know where some cis people get off thinking transphobia is exclusively misgendering someone.

Also we had a mod posting transphobia what, like last week? Fuck we need purges

[-] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago

Many cis ppl think transphobia is basically just being rude, masking it as "having concerns" or whatever passes under the radar for them. Same way lots of white ppl think racism is just yelling the n word

TMA Stalin for president leslie-shining

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago

Yea 100%, it's so common even in people who believe they support us. I saw someome (not here) the other day say they support trans people. But not trans women in sports, non passing trans women in bathrooms, trans women going to women's prison, and were not sure if trans youth should get healthcare. Fantastic.

People definitely just think transphobia is outward hostility

[-] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

"Supports trans ppl" but thinks trans women should be forced into actively dangerous situations in mens prisons, bathrooms and locker rooms. Amazing

Classic case of "i support trans people except in any situation where it's controversial and actually matters."

[-] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

We do. TC69 thought must be upheld.

On that post from that mod, he listened to us upon it being explained that it was transphobic and deleted the post. It sucks that we had to see and do that, but he's clearly trying and listening which is about all I can hope for from cis allies.

I along with another trans person had to explain some transphobic beliefs that my irl bestie and closest ally had held. It's just so engrained in every part of society.

Yes, i agree that it's prevalent and that sometimes the cissies need an explanation. The thing is, in the case of GlimmerTwin, he's been acting transphobic in the past, was openly dismissive when i tried to explain to him what the problem was and now he's at it again. Some people just do not want to learn.

[-] shallot@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

lol I had to check my user tags and sure as hell that’s one of the folks I’ve already got tagged as a transphobe lmao (independently, from my own observations in the past in case that wasn’t clear)

Oh hey, that tag was for the thing that @SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net mentioned upthread. Neat. This is why I mainly stick to traa tbh.

[-] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Oh absolutely. Deserved ban, could've been longer tho.

[-] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

I've seen a few crypto transphobes pop off lately. On the one hand cringe but also on the other, I'm glad they're showing their faces so we can take action.

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

What action was taken against the mod, they still are a mod no?

[-] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

Let me dm you to make sure we're talking about the same thing, and then I'll publicly clarify here.

[-] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

No action was taken against that mod. In this case he resolved it himself when asked to, and he also advised the mod team that the post in question was a repost originally by another user, and directed that information to that comm's mod team.

When I found out about this, I didn't call for any additional action because I considered the action resolved on the basis that he had listened to his trans comrades and corrected his behavior by deleting the post, and stated that he was taking notes for the future which he immediately demonstrated by helping call attention to another offending post so that it could be deleted for transphobia.

If you agree or disagree with my assement please let me know, I'm here for you all and I want to do what's right by you.

Edit: forgot to tag @BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net since this is a reply to my own comment

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

Little bit less upset now, TBH originally wanted him demodded and was thinking about trying to kick something off about it. But I guess that's fine.

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