submitted 2 weeks ago by moss_icon@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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I’m AMAB, been gender non-conforming for years but have often flip-flopped on whether I’m actually trans or just a cross dresser.

Well in the past few months I have come to the conclusion that I’m bigender. I spent a lot of my younger years thinking I could have been trans, then suspected I could have been genderfluid. However, I don’t think I have a fixed gender identity either way, and I don’t think it fluctuates either. I like to think of my gender expression as almost like being two separate entities, I’m fine with dressing as and being perceived as a man and I’m fine with dressed as and being perceived as a woman.

I recently changed my pronouns on here to use any but this is a formal coming out. I am just another username in the sea of Hexbear but I am probably never going to formally come out in real life, especially living in the United Kracker Kingdom, so at least this might give me even a tiny bit of closure on this issue.

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[-] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

Shame you can't come out in your public life but I totally get why though. Happy for you regardless.

[-] moss_icon@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks :)

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