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dysphoria, venting
Went out with a family member who really likes me but does not know me well. I was dressed very flamboyantly, feeling in my power. I am not out, partially because I don't feel certain.They sir'd me over and over again, almost like some people have a filler word ("um, " "uh, " "so, " etc.). Every time it happened I felt so invisible and small. I was looking forward to seeing them but ended up dissociating through most of the night. They also made a joke about me only shaving once a week even though I shave every day. I put a lot of effort into my appearance.
I dunno, I typically don't willingly spend time with people who call attention to gender all the time. Maybe I should force myself to do that a little more to figure out my dysphoria a bit. I mostly experience body dysphoria, but clearly there's more to this.
Thanks for coming to my TED talk. Any insight appreciated, as always 💜