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Link to the recipe, it's vegan 
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You can do whatever you want! Seriously, there's not rules here (lots of people think there are, but fuck those people!).
You can use whatever name you want, pronouns you want, id as whatever gender you want, dress how you want, whatever. You can be a cis man who just likes to wear skirts sometimes or you could be non-binary (or maybe gender fluid or something else). There's no correct answer in any absolute sense, there's just what makes you feel right. All these terms just help us make sense of our experience, communicate that to others, and find community. That's it. There's not some magic essence inside you that must be properly named or anything.
And you can change your mind! Like maybe right now you decide not to change your name, but later you want to. That's okay! And it's okay if you never change it. And it's okay if you change it, then end up not liking it and you change it again.
That was really helpful, thanks!
Yeah i don't know all the nonbinary terms. I just know mine, genderfluid. Just because I didn't fully do my homework on all the nonbinary terms doesn't mean i don't know which one I am.
Btw, I would love know know all the nonbinary terms by heart, but I can't seem to have the terms solidly stick in my memory. I'm overwhelmed while reading them all.