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Bi-cycle is slowly turning towards women and I don't like it
sex and stuff
Feels like I'm a lot more "compatible" with guys. I refuse to top anyone ever, and with guys that's just expected so I don't even have to discuss it, but last time I dated a girl it was kind of an issue and I felt selfish and it was just an awful situation and I don't want to experience it ever again.Comphet is such a powerful force.
Toppy womenfolk like me are out there, but can feel hard to find a lot of the time. Best of luck, comrade. 
Protip: being in a relationship doesn't necessetate sex,
sex
noone has to top anyone, or you can try mutual masturbationspoiler
honestly, mood. My bi-cycle has shifted super heavily towards men in the last few months and I still can't really accept it. But I get you about feeling "required" to top if you're with a girl. Part of why I think I keep circling back to men is because more than anything I really don't want to be expected to top. Like, I don't even want to have that discussion, I just want it to be assumed that I'm the bottom here and that's that. I hate having to feel like I need to reaffirm my bottom status and am constantly worried that it might get taken away with another (hypothetical) female partner. I want someone who I don't have to ask to dom me. (I get that men =/= dom and women =/= sub but like, fuck. Every t girl i've flirted with on the internet is just a raging sub and it's hard to find a dom)sex
There are so many ways to have sex. It's very possible for you to find a girl who wouldn't want you to do that."Top" is a very broad term which can include a lot of things, so I'm not sure exactly what you're referring to, but there are just so many possibilities outside of the top/bottom dynamic.