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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Don't be sorry, it's fine. I read everything, all the parts about videogames were pretty cool, even if I didn't reply to each one.

Not sure if this will need a spoiler but:

Talking about trans issues/transphobia/mental healthI'm sorry you had to go through all of this, seems to be somewhat of a standard experience unfortunately. I'm still in the closet, but I think my closest friends know I'm NB, but I'm more transfem than they realize (haven't told them directly, but I have a trans flag on most of my bios on social media) and I can't imagine not being completely independent before trying to transition, you're very brave and you'll be fine. You shouldn't isolate yourself from others, it's bad for you, and don't knock yourself down for having issues with dealing with people, people are always difficult, it's just important that you try to be nice to others, though. You will eventually find good friends that will accept and support you, and you will accept and support them too.


Now, after this i gotta get back to writing this thing. I have 5 and a half days and 5 pages to write something that I barely have any academic references to use kiryu-pain