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Today: a short yap about computer hardware:
Damn I love the AM4 socket its so upgradable yay, bought a Ryzen 9 5900X for our old desktop soon to be homelab and so excited for it.
Computers are fun! ~~(and expensive)~~
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So like how do you best come out to someone (when dating)? How early in the process? Like I'm semi-stealth it seems, so idk how to go about it😩
Immediately. This is a matter of safety. You do not want to risk a transphobe lashing out at you for "tricking" them.
Well I don't want to unnecessarily out myself as I want to be as stealth as possible and it could have career ramifications if too many people know, and I feel that feeling out a person by going on a date or two is alright, but it can definitely be dangerous😅
Just be safe. Ask probing questions and if red flags are raised, do not ignore them.
Yeah I'll try to gauge it. I'll be seeing him this weekend (but not on a date, it's school/work-related), so I'll wait until after that to disclose.
I’d probably do it early instead of potentially wasting time and getting attached to someone it might not workout with.
Plus if they are inclined to take it badly, they might read you waiting so long as a way to “manipulate” them.
Yeah I think that's the best course of action. The first date is tomorrow so in any case I'll see how that goes before deciding on anything. I just hate that I even have to think about and deal with situations such as these😭😭😭