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If I was, for some reason, in a relationship with a man, I would still be gay. Same counts for your apparent cishet friend. Thus it cannot be internalized transphobia or misogyny. And even if he turns out to be fem, making self-ironic jokes doesn’t really work when you’re still an egg anyway.
If you still see any value in this friendship, I would suggest you have a completely sober conversation with him. No jokes or anything. Make sure he understands how much of a negative impact his "humor" has on you. And if that doesn’t work, then yes, I guess "hammer time" would be appropiate then.
That’s at least how I would handle such a situation. But of course I don’t know the dynamics in your group, what exactly he has said or how well you yourself would do in such a conversation.