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I have no idea how to talk to cis people
My (cis) guy friend has brought up me being trans a couple times (I guess to show support? That he remembers and thinks of me that way?) and I just have no idea what to say or do about the topic. I don't really have anything "real" going on (like starting hrt or anything) to talk about, most of my thoughts are just dysphoria and like, do I really want to complain to him about that. I don't know, its just new and I have a terrible time with new situations. Maybe I just joke around about it... but how do I do that...Also my nickname is based on my dead name and I don't know what to do about that. Asking for him to call me my girl name seems awkward and I don't like the thought of that.
I don't know why I'm posting but I have a hard time with new things. god this process is going to be hard isn't it...
You being trans is real though I dunno what I'd say to a cis guy about gender either at that point, honestly. It's kinda weird, but depending on how good you feel about him you actually could just talk dysphoria and stuff, since he brought it up?