traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
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Transes, what's going on with me?
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What's with this whole imposter thing?Not only do I want to be a woman, but I want to want to be a woman. So why can't I believe it?
My wife and friends are all very supportive. I get she/hers. They use my new name. I'm dressing like a woman. Going through transition things like hair removal and voice training, but there's something holding me back.
I don't even know what it is. I can't even point to it. I'm clearly not cis (and don't want to be), and if I looked at another trans woman and saw her doing all the things I'm doing, I'd be like, "oh, that's a woman." But me? Idk, feels like something STILL hasn't clicked.
Like, I'm happy. I'm happier than I've been in a long time, but I'm afraid I'll wake up one day and be like, "well all that was weird. Wonder what I was thinking."
I ask if I'm doing this for the wrong reasons. What even are the wrong reasons? Lmao.
I've seen a thousand other trans people with this same thought, and now I'm going through it. Ugh, exhausting!
(Gonna keep transitioning tho. I won't be stopped!)
tbh even if this were to happen, as unlikely as it sounds, you can just stop doing it. at worst it was a time of experimenting with gender and that's cool. I do think we know ourselves better than others though, so if you don't think your cis and feel happy transitioning, it sounds like a good direction your moving in (whenever you end up)