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this post was submitted on 19 Aug 2024
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Barista is trans and friendly. I want to be friends, but I don't know how to ask to hang out because she's probably just nice because she's paid to be, and I don't want to be weird or seem like I'm wanting to hook up or something.
do you talk to her about things not related to coffee? if so, maybe see if there's something happening you'd both be interested in and invite her?
we do, but also I'm too shy and still feel like a creepo bc she's at work.
A barista giving you pretty much anything more than your order? That's not the worst sign in the world.
A simple, "Hey, I think you're pretty cool, you wanna hang out sometime?" will give you a pretty quick indication of how mutual the interest is.
Maybe deprioritize a coffee hangout, though :P
That's how my brother met his previous BF. Not really sure how they started hanging out outside of said coffee shop (might have been invited to some sort of party that included other coworkers and stuff?).
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