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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

She's poly and has no jealousy. I'm disabled and a lot less secure

I hadn't given much thought to the third person and how this would land on them. I'm cute and kind but don't even have the material conditions to take care of myself. So, I tend to think of myself as undatable, which is also a big part of my fear, both of being rejected and used for sex. The idea of finding love outside the relationship feels more like a thought experiment in other words, rather than an actionable idea.

I'm hoping my libido will dry out. Or that my gfs will light up. I've been celebate for several months as an adult. Intentionally avoiding self pleasure even. So, I think it's possible for my libido to get the message if I don't feed it. Right now there's a lot of habit energy though and difficult communication with my gf.