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Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades 
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So happy for you! So glad you were able yo work that out!!
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One of my exes is ace. I was weird about sex so it worked for me, when I transitioned they were more open and I wanted more but we also came up with a similar system of focusing on what I wanted out of it - which took care or the bare need as well as sharing something intimate with someone you love. We didn't break up over that issue at all, totally unrelated lol.In my whole life... I dunno if I'd say sex where both partners are allosexual (is that the word? Not ace) is better or worse. There's something really nice about hearing your partner vocalize and moan and something affirming in being wanted and not initiating every time - but, you get to be way more selfish guilt free if you're with someone who is ace and is willing and able to participate in some way even if that means they still have their clothes on. Plus, not being in the mood but your partner really wants some is kind of a downer. I think I'd be happy with either for a future relationship tbh