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I've had a few breakups in my life, a few as in literally 4. First one was a fucking disaster, don't want to get into it. Second one was after 5 years with an ex, then third was 5 years after we got back together. Then there was this last one with a new ex.
This one didn't hurt nearly as much! I was surprised. I've never been broken up with, I've always been the instigator, I imagine being dumped probably makes it sting more rather than being the dumpee. After how difficult it was for me, emotionally, the first 3 I'm really surprised by how fast I got over this last one. Cause those first 3 were brutal, months and months and months and months of being down and feeling regret and all that bad shit.
We weren't dating for long, like 5 months, and I guess on some level I figured it wouldn't last the whole time (not sure why, but it was always in the background). I mean, she was nice enough and it's sad it didn't work out but also... it feels so weird that I'm over it.
5 months vs 5 year is quite a difference. glad you're doing okay tho!
Grats though, good to be Over It โจ way better than feeling down and regretful.
brainlet prying
If you figured it wouldn't last, what were you hanging out for, if I may?It always felt weird breaking up over nothing? Like I didn't want a Seinfeld reason. Things were okay. I broke up after she bumped our date again, I asked if she wanted to keep doing this and she said "I have to think about it" so I just broke it off
Understandable tbh!