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[โ€“] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Talking about depression, mild mentions of bottom surgeryDepression has wound up hard the last couple of days. Still hasn't fully gone away since starting up 3 weeks ago. Dysphoria decided to pop up again for the first time since bottom surgery as well. It's excessively bad right now, too. Shan't get into it because I really don't want to trigger others' dysphoria, which is partially why I've been sent into this spiral. I always find myself wanting to help people out with their issues here, but it takes its mental toll on me over time. And well, I probably shouldn't be trying nowadays all things considered. I genuinely should take a break, but I don't want to leave you folks here. This is a great community and I love all of you.

[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago

You're very sweet and helpful, and I love having you around here. You've made a really positive impact on the community. Best case, I'd like you to be able to browse here and ignore the dysphoria spoilers, but... If that's not possible, you really should step away. We'll all survive comfy

Either way, I hope you feel better soon meow-hug

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

surgeryPost operative depression and dysphoria can always be a thing. Sometimes there feels like there's a pressure to be positive and happy go lucky postop due to various reasons. Any change takes getting used to, eventually things will calm down. Nap, take things slow, and let time wash over you cat-trans

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 3 months ago

meow-hug I hope those shitty vibes go away

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

meow-hug Everyone understands, it can be difficult, take a break if you need, hoping it can lift soon for you

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

meow-hug Take care of yourself however you need.