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this post was submitted on 15 Jul 2024
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I think you should know that no one hates you or wants you gone and I think everyone here appreciates your posts, myself included.
When you make a mistake it’s ok to apologize and move on. No one's perfect and, although we love our struggle sessions and can get overly passionate sometimes, hexbear is a place for community and that means space to forgive and grow. As a fellow autist I know what it’s like to misread something or to be socially unaware and not realize it until later only to then obsess about it and make myself feel worse. But it’s ok to make mistakes, it doesn’t make you a bad person, these things just happen sometimes and I don’t think there’s anyone here who thinks a sincere apology and self-crit isn’t enough to make things right.
To be honest I don’t care enough to read through the struggle session again to see what you said, so I don’t know if you actually did anything that needed apologizing for. I just want you to know that it’s ok to be unaware and make mistakes sometimes, here or elsewhere. You might make a mistake again and that’s ok
Haha no surely people dislike me
I'm glad to hear at least even though it's hard to internalise
Yeah I'm doing exactly that, not realising until later and obsessing about it
I kind of hate leaving people sour on me in general, Idk, feels like I fucked up badly
struggle session reflection
I don't think I said anything rude really, it's more that the approach was wrong and everyone else who replied took a much better tack, I'm too A) socially inept B) extremely literal and kind of argument brained. It sucks and I regret, Idk. Doesn't feel that okay...spoiler
Well that’s what makes it a mistake! I’m not saying that nothing you do can ever be wrong, but when you do mess up it’s ok to forgive yourself. Being socially inept doesn’t make you a bad person it’s just the way you are, and it sounds like a lot of people like who you are. Just remember to be kind to yourself
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I guess Idk... Fucked up that people like the weird bit that is my existenceIf it helps, my inability to delay gratification got me excessively reloading hoping for another reply from you.
Don't wear out your F5 key kiddo, I'm weird that way
F5? I’m on mobile, I have like five ways to refresh.
Don't destroy your touchscreen