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A question for the mega: did my mother have a responsibility not to let her husband (different man to my dad) kick me out of the house before they moved the summer after highschool, purely because he is a comedy transphobe? I would have hated moving way out into a rural area, but probably less so than couchsurfing.
I ask because Idk if there's disagreement on prioritising one's children. If you are a parent: if you are a parent, what is your stance on this, maybe minus the queerphobia. Do you have a responsibility to your child over your partner? Inquiring mind (my dumb ass) wants to know!
Child > partner always, but if she's a stay at home mom or has low income there's not much she can do
Mother is a gainfully employed upper class lib who was moving because she and Comedy Transphobe scored a $300,000 house in the country for slightly less, to live out their trad white picket fence fantasies in :^)
Ew
Frankly, I wouldn't trust any mom's boyfriend/ husband until he proves otherwise.
Yeah, a person not related to you should not be kicking you out, and your mom shouldn't have let it happen
Not a parent, but I side with children come first.
That said, I know my parent's parents expected them out after high school/at 18yo. My mom was living on her own at 14 (idk why). So... Wouldn't surprise me if your mom had that mentality to some degree just because that's how their generation grew up. Doesn't justify the behavior, but I think motivations/intent here are relevant in terms of deciding if it's worth maintaining a relationship with her.
Eh she just cried a bunch as the dude kicked me out, without doing anything about it. I wasn't quite 18 yet, lol.
Any disagreement you see is selfish assholes showing their whole ass.
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Sorry if that's bad news, that's just how I see it. It sounds like you are very far removed from that situation though so that's good
Naw I thought it was based =) and yes, for her crimes I cut my mother out of my life!