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Another week, another thread. Go out there and have a good one everyone! trans-heart

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[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

I want to try only allowing myself a dysphoria post after I've accomplished something in coding. Currently, I'm putting together a portfolio so I can start applying for jobs. I can't let myself forget that this is my goal and I actually like doing it! I don't want to get so lost in my dysphoria, but I also can't pretend it's not there

I turned [age] in the last [period of time] and while I did have a lovely birthday, I felt like a failure for letting a year go by while not having a plan to fix my dysphoria situation. That's stuck with me a lot. I won't have this situation resolved when I turn [age + 1] next year, but I want to look back and say I got absolutely everything else in order - job, creative stuff, life

Maybe I can't see a path forward right now, but I'm going to try my best to trust that it exists and that I will find it. I grieve my body and what's happened on level that's hard to put to words, but this can't be where everything ends

(coding) I fixed all the functions in my current project!I did a silly and made most of my event listeners connected to anonymous functions. It worked in a project I did with a friend, but I realized I made a mess of things by not having functions I could easily call whenever I needed and was digging myself into a hole. I converted everything that needed to be into typical functions and kept the ones that didn't need to be called outside of events. Everything works and I'm happy. Wrapping things up on it this weekend

(body stuff) I earned thisI hate having a vagina!!

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I did not expect to be called out for not working on my coding projects in this thread, wow.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

kim-salute happy to help!