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possibly ignorant take on femboy/tomboy discourse
I think I’m starting to understand the femboy discourse a bit better now because I think I have a similar experience with tomboy women.
I always wanted to be a boy deep inside but I wasn’t very aware that trans people exist so I couldn’t really explain te feeling. So I started to identify as tomboy or masculine woman. Now I’m seeing lots of tomboy/masc women around me and wondering if they might be trans as well because the way they describe their feelings is so similar to how I felt.
As far as I understand the (slight) annoyance on here about femboys it’s that a lot of femboys turn out to be trans but saying that to a femboy can lead to a lot of backlash from a part of the community because to them speculating on someone’s gender identity is a big no-no. Please tell me if I’m being ignorant/wrong
The annoyance on here comes from transphobic dorks misgendering every transfem in gaming and anime as a femboy. It's a common strategy to dogpile on any trans representation in these areas and to systematically form mobs to harass and attack trans women in these communities. That background makes cis men and obvious eggs complaining about being called trans in denial by one or two baby trans girls on reddit come off as whiny fucks drenched in cis privilege, especially when they outright used transphobic talking points and refuse to engage with criticism of that, as has happened on here.
Oh I wasn’t aware of the misgendering stuff. That’s awful. Thanks for the clarification
I tap the sign with enthusiasm:
First wolf wins if person is cis, second one wins in all other cases. :down-with-cis:
i'm totally on board.
unlimited feminization on the cis world
I would support a forced feminisation of all cis men movement because it would make me look and feel more masculine:) (even though achieving max masculinity definitely isn’t my goal)
I think it's just good practice to take people at how they identify now and support them. It doesn't make someone shitty to think "I wonder if that person is trans," but that changes when it's assuming someone must be.
Tbh a lot of people afab also don’t want to identify as men because men have a very bad rep. But yeah non-masc people who don’t express femininity are often identified as tomboy as well.