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Why feel guilt over attraction to women? Should cis lesbians also feel guilty about it?
Being straight would be sad if you're a lesbian. Being a lesbian(or bi or pan or) is awesome.
Liking women makes me feel like a man, idk I just feel like my attraction is malebrained
i don't even know how I would identify anymore, so much shame and so much dysphoria has clouded whatever it is I actually feel
Why & how would your attraction be "malebrained"? I have watched cis lesbians on reddit accuse eachother of same, which is absurd.
I don't really know how to describe it, feeling attraction like that just gives me dysphoria in the same way that like looking at my face before shaving or looking at my shoulders does. It's just a source of dysphoria for me and idk how to stop it
Have you been with a woman since transitioning? I did in the very very early stages, and even before hrt, before socially transitioning and just having come out - it was queer sex all of a sudden, it was different, and it was better!
How about a different thought, you might feel dysphoria when seeing an attractive woman not because "it's male to be attracted to women" but because you want to look like an attractive woman. Which is the eternal transbian struggle lol am I attracted to this person or do I just want to steal their aesthetic.
I have not, nor have I pre-transition
but it happens even for people who have a completely different style than me and who I do not want to look like (I don't mean they look bad just that they don't look how I want to look, different vibes)