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Date a trans girl (hexbear.net)
submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

yea

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[-] [email protected] 74 points 1 year ago

Shame, I do so love disappointing people's parents by being weird and turning their "son" into my girlfriend yea

[-] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago
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[-] [email protected] 67 points 1 year ago

this meme lied to me. i had dinner on christmas with my gf's family and it ruled

[-] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago

Me reading the title: is this chaser shit on hexbear?

Me reading the meme: oh lol

[-] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Finding another communist to date is essentially impossible. I have never dated a communist.

[-] [email protected] 47 points 1 year ago

Just go to DSA meetings and be weird to all the women ๐Ÿคก

[-] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago

Date a sympathetic lib, make them a communist

[-] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago

That's basically what I did. My partner was generally lib/apolitical, then I have gradually radicalized her. I did get super lucky that she understands and had/has very strong opinions about climate and environmentalism (part of how we bonded in the first place), so that was an easy vector -> explaining why I believed that solving those problems was impossible without communism. Now we'll be watching some slop tv show and she'll start to do unpromted material analysis and it gets me all hot and bothered

[-] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Same, I love to watch them go on rants

Except I started as a lib too lol

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Oh me too, of course! I was just further along in my radicalization than her when we met - and generally more interested in politics/ideology

[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

My bf used to be really into radlib streamers like funny clown man, and radicalizing him was a long hard process, but very rewarding. He already had basically the right principles, just needed a bit of deprogramming.

[-] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

i did this tho, i quizzed everyone that messaged me on marx on dating apps and it worked. now have best bf

[-] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

thats incredible, what questions did you ask?

[-] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

basic stuff in the communist manifesto and terms like dialectical materialism. i was even anarchist inclusive, bf was anarchy adjacent before covid, became a hardline commie after, so we talked about kropotkin and stuff

i had a bad time where a guy acted like he was a socialist but wasnt in an attempt to have sex with me and i got very thorough (he went to some maga thing on an account he didnt tell me about)

[-] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

oh and if you date another trans person, odds are theyre a socialist of some kind and you can convince them to be commies by explaining the thought process behind it. i dated a couple of other trans women before meeting my bf, we liked each other a lot but it just didnt work out for a variety of reasons. still big friends and theyre all hardliners now

[-] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago

Try putting "i'm a communist" on your dating profiles, it's worked for me

[-] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

simply hang out with someone who seems cool, realize they're a communist, then fall in love

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[-] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago

Ignorant CIS OOTL guy here: does this mean that trans women don't get along with their parents? If so, I'm mad sorry :(

[-] [email protected] 57 points 1 year ago

It means that there are a lot of trans people who get disowned by unsupportive parents

[-] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago

Or who have to go no contact because keeping up with the verbal abuse is too draining. Like, that's an actual term in US queer communities, to go no contact. When you stop answering calls and coming over for the holidays because you just can't take that shit anymore. I feel it's a lot more widespread among Amerikan queer people (not just trans and nonbinary folks, also gay cis people) than among Europeans. Like, i'm in community with some people who have really awful, transphobic parents who constantly deadname and misgender them and just act like complete douches at every opportunity, and i know stories of queer people who've been homeless for a while because their parents immediately kicked them out of the house when they came out, this happens here as well, but the open hostility and especially the homelesness thing seems more common in the US.

[-] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago

In my polycule consisting of 3 trans girls, you can meet exactly zero of our collective parents.

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[-] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago

but also if she does openly introduce you to her parents, they're probably gonna be pretty cool parents

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[-] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

fr itd be great to have a commie mom

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

cat-trans I will hug you all to pieces and make your favorite dinner meow-hug

you don't even have to date my kid, just lmk if you're passing through Ohio, I've got a bed and a plate for each of you โค๏ธ

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[-] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago

that awkward moment when you're a well-bearded they and still realizing you have damn near this entire fit sitting in pieces in your closet

[-] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I need this girls fit

Edit: real gender envy moments

[-] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago

Ngl I basically already wear exactly this every day lmao. Not the exact style, but the beret + bow + autumn jacket fit is very comfy, although I also add a scarf. If you need suggestions on pieces to replicate something similar I can tell you where I got a couple of mine. I'd recommend thrifting if you can though, you can often find very cute clothes cheaper that way.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

I would greatly like some suggestions on recreating this fit, because when it comes to fashion Iโ€™m a big dum dum. I wish I had the courage to shop for clothes irl ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”

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[-] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago

Posting here because I too would like to dress like the cool anime girl.

[-] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago

I want to be the cool anime girl (still cis).

[-] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago

Batman voice: My parents are DEAD

[-] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

Hope every transphobe parent of yours see the light of islam and and realise how wrong they are to not love you and read you das capital before bed

[-] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Thought that was Korone for a sec (phonetically close, it's Kogane from iDOLM@STER)

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

I did show this meme to my boyfriend once, he agreed. Then months later he met my parents. We played him for an absolute foul haha

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[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

completed it mate

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

sounds good

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