Pretty wild! All states give you at least 30 days to dump your baby, no strings attached. Some states give you 60 days!

I feel like more people should know about this! It seems like a highly under utilized ability.

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[–] 166 points 6 months ago (5 children)

Nebraska had no age limit for a bit. Guy dropped off 9 of his 10 kids(1 was 18) cause he felt overwhelmed after his wife died a year earlier.

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  • [–] 138 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    "I think there's a misperception that we just inadvertently left an age cap out. But the reality was we wanted to save lives of older kids who might be at risk," said Amanda McGill Johnson, a Nebraska state senator at the time.

    That actually kind of makes sense? I mean, dropping off teens is excessive, but maybe it highlights an issue? Overwhelmed parents of teenagers isn't something I had on my list of people that need more help, at least.

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  • [–] 42 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    I'm more concerned how he had ten kids and then felt overwhelmed when his wife left him. Like what the fuck?!

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  • [–] 46 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Grieving for a partner definitely doesn't make it easier to raise your children?!

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  • [–] 15 points 6 months ago

    And I've not met many men with 10 kids who are super into doing the whole "dividing the labor of parenting evenly" thing, and I went to catholic schools, I knew some big families. And even if he had been the type to do that, you aren't winding up being the breadwinner for a family with 10 kids and having both low stress finances and a low stress job. So adding in lots of extra home duties and possibly reduced financial capabilities and mourning will probably wreck you.

    That said, I've never met a family that large where the parents kept actually parenting beyond number 3 or 4. Some of the most horrifically parentified people I ever met were middle daughters of large families. Also the kids are struggling too, and each of them is likely to have taken some lasting psychic damage from being abandoned by their dad, even temporarily, shortly after their mom died.

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    [–] 62 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    Most fire stations in the US have at least one person trained as a paramedic/EMT and in many places all of them have at least some medical training. Because in a lot of places fire trucks arrive, there's people who need immediate medical help.

    So they have the basic skills to keep a newborn baby alive until they can get it to a hospital. And if it's older and healthy, they can just play with it and feed it and clean it as needed until Child Services arrives or it grows up and joins the crew.

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  • [–] 63 points 6 months ago (4 children)

    Well, where did you think new firefighters come from?

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    [–] 45 points 6 months ago (7 children)

    What about a 956 month old toddler?

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    [–] 36 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    A while back I fell into the rabbit hole of people dropping off the baby without informing the other parent. turns out it's really hard to get the kid back

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  • [–] 33 points 6 months ago (7 children)

    Reasonable. Now who's gonna bet that some dip shit in Washington makes it illegal because "mothers should face the consequences of their decisions" or some bullshit. 

    Call me a cynical old bitch but when the US does something reasonable I always think "how they gonna fuck it up this time?"

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    [–] 32 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    Can you pick them up again at the end of the day? Free daycare would be nice.

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    [–] 28 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    TIL the US has free child care.

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  • [–] 26 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    Yeah, but when I drop a teenager off at the fire station, they just bring her back home and tell me I can't do that because it's considered "child abandonment."

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    [–] 24 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    From what height am I allowed to drop off my child?

    /s

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    [–] 23 points 6 months ago* (1 child)

    Can I legally drop someone else's baby off at the fire station? 🤣

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  • [–] 23 points 6 months ago

    Yeah my mom always brought that up when I got in trouble

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  • [–] 19 points 6 months ago (12 children)

    There is something similar called "baby hatch" in Germany, but those are usually located at hospitals. Why the fire station? It makes no sense to me.

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  • [–] 23 points 6 months ago

    Fire stations are everywhere, staffed by trustworthy people, who inevitably also have medical training. Additionally they aren't scary like the police are.
    They're the people you call if you need help.

    You can surrender an infant at a hospital too, as well as a police station, but fire stations are just more frequent.

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    [–] 19 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    Yeah this directly came out of people abandoning babies in all sorts of place. Some places have these nest type of boxes all padded and temperature controlled where people can leave babies. This is the type of good thing I could see today republicans rallying to stop.

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    [–] 16 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    It's better than leaving them in some men's room baby changing station with the sign "Place sacrifice here" sign taped to it.

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    [–] 14 points 6 months ago (6 children)

    You know, a flight from overseas is expensive to do this, but you got to look at the long term savings...

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