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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by MLRL_Commie@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

Edit2: the ratio is amazing. I'm exhausted. This has quadrupled my hexbear time for the day and I will be limiting myself for a bit lol. I feel like we got somewhere in a couple of good threads thanks to Hellinkilla and ratboy. Good luck, comrades.

Edit: the rant wasn't clear enough. In Previous struggles users have expressed frustrations with how mods/admin decisions are made. I would like to discuss how they are made and hear from them. Mods have also stated before that they wish we could be better, I'd like to hear how and know how they think this should be approached.

Rant/effort post coming:

What's the follow up to the recent problems with how mods/admins have handled recent issues? Did I miss something? Can we get some explanations about how this site is structured and what roles we see for admins/mods generally?

history of struggle session, not necessary but gives context


We had a fairly large and fairly one-sided struggle session a couple weeks ago. Z_Poster was banned (and still is, as far as I know) and the emoji was added. Some users (thinking of @hellinkella, smong others) did some effort to really parse out where the pain points were and who was involved (largely Zionism inherent in some positions, Jewish exceptionalism). Only the emoji and banning occurred with no other promises/ideas from mods/admins.

There then followed a leak of mod logs where opinions were still very different than the userbase. I would encourage people not to open it or ask for it, please, and especially not to share it. But I think a significant amount of us did see messages that, regardless of context, gave an image of admins/mods that think the userbase hates them, disagreed with the userbase in significant ways, and which wants to steer us in a better direction. The mod chat was also absurdly active at the time, but there's been little talk about what WAS discussed, only discussions about what was missed, where more context is needed, and things that were not done in a timely manner. This was not further discussed. (Personally I'm super appreciative of you all, doing work I don't want to do on a website I enjoy thoroughly, and don't hate any of you--including previous ones I've argued with, but would like to see some changes which will follow below and hopefully other comrades will add to it/change it for the better).

We had an EM/POC post which was tangential to that, but where there seemed to be large support for the userbase with regards to the ideological differences between mods/admins and the broader userbase. There was also a banning for which apologies followed quickly, but which indicates the structural failure more generally. There were of course other topics covered, which I won't speak on here. I didn't see any solutions proposed and accepted, from any of the topics relevant to this post. (Please correct me if I read this thread wrong, don't want to speak for you, EM/POC comrades.)

Was there a follow up? Is that coming? Is the discussion behind the curtain of the mod chat? I understand you all have lives, so don't spend all your time working on this, but some knowledge of how you're working would be good. Otherwise it feels like purposeful pushing back of feedback/decisions so that we will forget the passionate feelings or give up. If that's the goal, it's a horrible strategy and should just be explicitly told. "3 months after a struggle session is the earliest we will make changes in processes" is better than nothing.

I would also recommend we have an open discussion about the direction of the site. It seems the mods/admins have indicated to have better ideas for what we can be (I remember this from the "dunk" discussions too), but have not made clear what their position in that is. Enforcers? A vanguard (with our input as leading determinant)? A different vanguard (against our input for but in our interests)? Theoreticians that have the ideas but want the users to take the lead? Knowing this would make clearer how to interact with you, and how to make our experiences better. Maybe we do need growth and improvement, but we haven't been clear about how, and talking down is how most have experienced that. I already love this place, so when I'm frustrated I don't think of leaving. But that's not universal

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[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 24 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I genuinely don't understand what this post is asking for.

Some people wanted an emoji. An emoji got added.

Why is there a wall of text about this now?

It's a fucking emoji, have a missed something?

[-] GamersOfTheWorld@hexbear.net 9 points 11 months ago

The right spark at the right time, that's what.

Not trying to say the outrage was justified, but I saw there were a lot of prior outrages, and there was almost zero communication. The gunpowder of unresolved grievances meeting the lit match of a minor struggle.

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 12 points 11 months ago

What unresolved grievances? What outrages?

You're doing the same generalisation as OP.

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago

Did you read the recent poc concerns thread, and the admins had to ask everyone to stay on topic and that the zionism concerns would be dealt with later? That's my guess

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[-] GamersOfTheWorld@hexbear.net 10 points 11 months ago

Well, off the top of my head, people were REALLY, and I mean REALLY pissed off about the whole Dunk Tank struggle session.

Also, sorry if I'm causing any trouble, not the intention, but I do apologize if I am. heart-sickle

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

people were REALLY, and I mean REALLY pissed off about the whole Dunk Tank struggle session.

I was banned in that whole thing, which also spilled over into Luigi stuff. It was a hidden ideological conflict between a divergent group on the site that believes in the theory that America should be treated as a settler state like Israel vs MLs who have a different view. The ML group won, things got resolved later and I got over my ban. Everything is fine?

I genuinely don't get it.

[-] ratboy@hexbear.net 13 points 11 months ago

I don't think the issue here is about the emoji, or the dunk tank, but the way the mods operate behind these types of decisions and those are just the most recent examples that people can point to. In those posts and many others the convo seems to evolve into mod accountability and distrust from the user base, but the mod team has never seemed to give an open forum to that problem specifically. These grievances are only ever broached in posts which have different specific focuses, but the mod/admin team hasn't made a space for very specific discussion about this underlying issue. So I think OP is trying to take it upon themselves to try to open that discussion up, however I don't think itll be productive unless mods/admins join the conversation publicly instead of just talking amongst themselves in the private chats.

This is just my assumption and sorry if thats all obvious to you I may be misinterpreting your comment

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[-] 666@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 11 months ago

MLs view America as a settler state. Not sure what divergent group you're talking about; it's generally agreed on Lemmygrad that America is a settler state.

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[-] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 18 points 11 months ago

Correction: Z_poster was rebanned.

The other thread was talking about how there was some "double standard" going on, but IMO, banning BMF for "sectarianism" while letting Z_poster fly was inconsistent at best. BMF was never hostile- in fact, they would never really respond to anyone, even comment replies were once-off.

I don't think the amount of time I spend on this site has changed much in 4 years, and the issue of arbitrary mod intervention seems to be much better now than it was early on.

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[-] makotech222@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago

Hi, I'm the dev for hexbear. I have an admin account, but i'm not an active admin and don't ever act as admin in any capacity. But i do have access to some admin channels, mostly just as an observer and to provide tech support. Speaking in a personal capacity:

Lots of people in this thread (and in the struggle sessions) need to stop assuming the absolute worst of the admin/mod team. We're all comrades and we're all human. The admins I see do discuss every potential ban/purge action (with rare exception, like the one in empoc megathread last week). They all take it quite seriously, far more than I would personally if I were an admin. There were people in the emoji thread calling the admins/mods zionists. If I saw someone calling me a zionist over my opinion on an emoji I would just instantly ban you. As a life long forum-enjoyer, hexbear's admin team is easily the most tempered team I've ever seen. They take wayyyyy more punishment than they need to.

The hexbear team works without pay, entirely as volunteers. It is a decent amount of work to be an admin/mod and it does take a mental toll. Especially when every action you take might generate a week-long struggle session.

Sometimes a user breaks a rule, sometimes its just bad vibes. Its not a science, its just making good judgements. Its fine to make a request of admin team to reconsider stuff; we make mistakes sometimes. But its extremely unnecessary to make accusations of abuse or reactionary thought towards the team. You can trust the current team to root out abusive actions on our own (as we already have at least once recently with a former admin)

Regarding calls for accountability, sorry, but this is just an online forum. There is the modlog that has all the admin/mod actions. I've seen multiple mods removed from position, as well as an admin. There is no reasonable way to be more accountable. Admins are responding to issues and make efforts to give clear reasoning in mod logs for any actions taken. @FALGSConaut@hexbear.net Sorry for picking you, but you're the only one I remember being in every struggle session calling the admins as being irresponsible/corrupt/powerhungry without any evidence. What exactly do you imagine making things better? If you don't believe the admins/mods are responding correctly, then guess what, its time to buy your own server, host lemmy, and spend hours a day on managing something you use to get for free.

Hexbear is just a forum; its not a political party. Being banned isn't the end of the world and its not an act of violence. You can make a new account pretty much any time and get back to posting. Sorry for ranting, and again, this is just my personal opinion, but I hate seeing certain people show up in every thread throwing barbs at the admin team for every imagined slight.

[-] BynarsAreOk@hexbear.net 13 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

There were people in the emoji thread calling the admins/mods zionists. If I saw someone calling me a zionist over my opinion on an emoji I would just instantly ban you.

Pretty tasteless comment without context. The discussion only happened and found significant support from users because these opinions suddenly went straight jumping from being on top of the fence to siding with Trump zionist admin.

Without this context, sure who fucking cares about an emoji right. But when your "opinion on an emoji" happens to side with the fascist Trump admin then the context is very different. Usualy this isn't an issue because 'Murica freedom shit burning the flag free speech all that nonsense... except when it doesn't and suddenly there could be real world consequences for burning a flag.

If you don't care about this context it says more about yourself than you realize. Damn good thing you don't care to be a moderator it seems.

[-] makotech222@hexbear.net 8 points 11 months ago

Touch grass. The context is some people wanted an emoji. and if you didn't want it, you were called a zionists by weirdos like you.

[-] BynarsAreOk@hexbear.net 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Oh shut the fuck up then, I am literaly telling you why it happened and your first response is to get defensive and calling names.

Stop with the self rightousness shit, take your contributions and shove it. If your "opinion" is siding with the Trump zionist admin you can indeed go fuck yourself.

[-] makotech222@hexbear.net 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

not wanting emoji == supporting the genocide. that's your argument. Also for the record, I did want the emoji, but I still saw the validity in the arguments against it. To call someone a zionist over it is a very 'touch grass' moment. If you believe the admin team is zionist then just leave? Why are you here?

[-] BynarsAreOk@hexbear.net 10 points 11 months ago

My particular point was the fucking context.

Your comment = "haha who cares about an emoji, touch grass"

My comment ="Actualy, it wasn't just an emoji, it was because suddenly Admin-mod policy happened to agree with the Trump admin, it was a bad look and made people unconfortable"

Your comment ="lol weirdo the context was indeed just an emoji, touch grass"

Now you want to discuss? Sure. For the record I wasn't even particularly involved in that struggle either btw. But your comment was indeed dismissive of the broader context. It wasn't just an emoji, it is literaly agreeing with the Trump admin.

Do you expect to shame me? Yes actualy, if your "opinion" happens to agree with the Trump admin you are very close to making a pro-zionist argument. You disagree? Suit yourself but don`t come here with the self-righous BS "oh but if it were me I would have banned you". Who are you threatening? Take the head out of your ass.

If you`re confident in your opinion, make a post right now, relitigate this with the userbase, try to convince us isntrael is just a fucking emoji. Otherwise stfu, admit we mostly don't agree with you and take a bow out.

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[-] Jabril@hexbear.net 12 points 11 months ago

I feel like people were calling them zionists because of the Jewish supremacy aspect that LoveYourself wrote about in the comment which was censored and then renewed, resulting in the loss of that poster from our community. Another of many non white comrades who have been pushed out via a systemic white supremacist undercurrent which much like zionism does not define the individuals who perpetuate it, but their actions. These are latent, unconscious biases playing out, no one here thinks the mods and admin are secretly mossad. They were calling out the actions of those people which were zionist in nature, which the people doing them didn't realize.

Silencing Arabs and Muslims, banning them and punishing them, while calling them holocaust deniers for saying they want the emoji to be the actual flag of the zionists, telling people they are antisemitic for thinking it is weird that there are burning flags for other nations but not the one committing genocide; if you read this and didn't know it was about hexbear, you would think "sounds like zionist behavior."

that is what is being called zionist, the zionist behavior based on zionist logic.

maybe some users who are actively being silenced and attacked responded in more defensive or aggressive ways due to feeling cornered, and instead of calmly saying "that behavior and your reasoning is based in zionist logic and here is why, please dispense of this logic and be better about noticing when unchecked zionist ideology influences you without you realizing it." they said "you are a zionist."

since the people they were talking to were calling them antisemities, reporting them and trying to silence them, allowed to do this without being silenced, and even the Jewish users came in and all agreed that it was not antisemitic and those actions of those people were wrong, resulting in one demodding and one ban of the opposing side for zionism, whats the problem? they got angry and defensive because of this banworthy behavior and the enabling of it by the powers that be and acted up in a way I wouldn't encourage in general, but they were right about this and most people involved agreed. I can't blame a person being treated badly by the people with power here for getting angry and communicating poorly.

they were zionist actions, they were using zionist logic, and it doesn't have to mean that those people are wholly and unabashedly zionists, but to assert that because they are on hexbear and volunteer and are serious about communism means they have fully rid themselves of white supremacy, zionism, and other forms of indoctrination is totally unrealistic and normalizes a culture of shame that actually inhibits the people involved from learning and growing and improving. People were being harsh with them because they were digging their heels in and had to be convinced not to do zionism here. I don't think prioritizing the harshness of one party over the other party fundamentally using zionist talking points makes much sense.

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[-] Thordros@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago

admins/mods that think the userbase hates them

Well, yeah. Of course we do. It is the sacred duty of all posters to hate their moderators.

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[-] Zoift@hexbear.net 13 points 11 months ago
[-] MLRL_Commie@hexbear.net 14 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I do my share just fine, thanks. This post actually comes from those experiences! Organizing, working, managing groups, coordinating in business, etc, and we could all learn from it how to interact! And besides all that I can spend 15 minutes posting on my favorite forum :)

[-] Aradino@hexbear.net 10 points 11 months ago

downbear

Wanting the only decent social media to be less shit doesn't require you to not go outside

[-] FALGSConaut@hexbear.net 13 points 11 months ago

I'm really disappointed how the admins/mods have been handling this. Another poster (who has not only been banned but completely purged from the site) made another post (now conveniently deleted/purged) in the same vein, asking when we will have any communication from the mod team about any changes stemming from the recent problems. I'm going to repost my comment on that here since this post hasn't been deleted (yet).

I couldn't agree more that we need mods/admins to be more transparent and accountable for their actions. I appreciate that they're all volunteers doing this in their spare time but as it stands its too easy for mods to abuse their power with little to no recourse available to the average user. Add in the fact that mods were/are able to engage in behaviour that would result in the average user being banned and the double standard is hard to ignore. Mods should be held to a higher standard, not given carte blanche to act however they want. As the recent situation with Z_Poster365/Nakoichi has shown there's no process for removing a mod who is engaging in personal vendettas & threating fellow users. The only course of actions available are reporting the mod to the mods (we all see the issue there I hope) or engaging in a struggle session.

I like the idea of term limits or some other method of rotating mods in order to prevent cliqueish behaviour but doing so would require transparency in mod appointments and generally more communication between the admin/mod team and the general userbase. As it stands mods are appointed with little/no input from the general community based on the judgment of the admin/mod team. For example, the new mod BeanisBrain was appointed to mod 4 coms basically as soon as they created their account (not trying to pick on them but it's a little odd to me). One can only assume they have a previous relationship with the mod team, but to the general userbase (or at least me) it looks like pure cronyism.

I do think we need reform (or revolution?) of the moderation system/clique because the current system of opacity only encourages the "us vs them" mentality. Maybe open elections of mods with term limits or some other system of spreading their responsibility & authority? We also need a method of recalling mods that are failing to adhere to the code of conduct because the current system of having a struggle session only to be ignored by the admins hasn't been working

I think there are some deep issues with the mod team, they have constantly silenced users trying to shine a light on their abuses of power. How are we supposed to have an recourse against a mod abusing their powers when they are happy to ban people and delete posts to silence them? There isn't even any reason in the modlog as to why MartinLuther's post was deleted & their account purged from the site.

The bar is so fucking low for mod behaviour and they still fail. Disappointing.

[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 14 points 11 months ago

So they got purged by the admins. I did say that the admins will use the excuse that the leaked chat logs have doxable info to purge the post and sweep it under the rug.

[-] FALGSConaut@hexbear.net 13 points 11 months ago

Yea you called that shot 100%

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[-] hellinkilla@hexbear.net 9 points 11 months ago

term limits or some other method of rotating mods

I thought of term limits too. But I think you have to have a method of replacing the outgoing before you fire them.

Also with a voluntary position, you have to consider that the person filling it ought to get some sort of compensation. As we do not provide a wage, it is just intangibles. Emotional, political, social. Having that suddenly cut off would be really shitty. And to me, if I was considering applying for a position, I'd be pretty much dis incentivized knowing that as soon as I got good at it, I'd be cut off.

There is also value in institutional, long term memory which this website does not yet have available to it by any other means. Term limits would make that worse.

Friendly amendment: terms. Not term limits. Terms where re-selection is required. But if they're OK, they're OK.

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[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 13 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Yes, the next meta post will invite the user base to discuss updating the Code of Conduct, as well as how moderators are chosen and how they are removed. I will make the post next week, thank you for holding us accountable. Links to doxxing information will be removed from the database using the tools we have available which may be imprecise but are imperative to maintain the safety of our mod team due to past doxxing and death threats.

The structure of the site is as follows.

The users report violations of the code of conduct, moderators receive these reports for the communities they moderate and take action as appropriate. When there is multiple mod actions taken among multiple communities and/or the user has a history of mod actions across the account as well as previous alts as admin may take site action (such as a temporary or permanent site ban)

In the event a user continues to repeat the same actions that broke the code of conduct the admins may use tools such as looking at upvotes, posts, comments and username trends to act on these alts preemptively. In such a case we take effort to unban the account in the event we receive information that our mod actions are incorrect.

The way that moderators are added is an existing mod vouches for them (rare) or they submit a mod application to the admin team, we accept the vast majority of applicants. In the event a moderator violates the code of conduct an admin will asses and demod when appropriate.

The admins take a hands-off approach relying upon community moderators to handle their communities and acting in the event of a wrecker, spammer, or non-local user that is reactionary. Due to the moderators receiving death threats, and doxxing attempts we have anonymzied the modlog to protect our volunteers.

There was a post made by multiple users discussing the meta situation after the emoji request, there was a dedicated post allowing the EMPOC community to discuss the events. Due to the multiple posts on this topic we won't be featuring anymore, however there will be an upcoming post featured for discussing the code of conduct itself as well as the moderator approval/removal process.

The https://hexbear.net/c/hexbear community is where you can discuss meta topics or mod actions as well as the matrix room linked in that community's sidebar.

I have maintained that the admins have no goal other than enforcing the code of conduct, there has never been a "growth" mindset for the site nor can we speak to the direction of the site. We have always encouraged the users to take direction and create the community they want to see, the growth of the news mega, trans mega, movie nights, theory/reading clubs are all a result of users working together to create something.

It can be difficult to try and translate vague or unspecific comments into what could be actually changed.

[-] Alaskaball@hexbear.net 10 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

The way that moderators are added is an existing mod vouches for them (rare) or they submit a mod application to the admin team, we accept the vast majority of applicants.

I'm also adding that moderators, just like any user, can at their own discretion and of their own free will chose to delete their account and start a new account for whatever reason they may have. Moderators that have done so have informed us of their intent and the name of their new account so as to ensure there is an easy and uninterrupted transition for them to continue their volunteer work as moderators.

This means that whenever there is a new moderator that seems to be a new account being added out of the blue, chances are it's simply someone swapping out accounts for personal reasons.

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[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 12 points 11 months ago

I don't think people have speculated exactly why the leaker leaked the mod chat. Personally, I think it's pretty consistent behavior for a disgruntled mod. There are plenty of places to leak the chat logs to if they were a truly malicious actor while them leaking the chat logs to Hexbear user fits more with a disgruntled Hexbear user who wants the drama to stay in Hexbear.

Outside of the disgruntled mod spilling the beans on their true motivations, we can only speculate. Perhaps they think ZPoster shouldn't be banned, perhaps they have an argument with Nakoichi and leaked the chat to make them look bad, perhaps they are just unhappy with the general direction of the website, and so on.

But I do not think the admins are capable of this amount of self-reflection. They will most likely claim that the leaker was a wrecker (how was a third-party user able to gain access to a private chat that most Hexbear users don't even know exist) and sweep it under the rug per usual.

My predictions are this:

  1. Since the admins failed to sweep the whole adding the emote-banning of ZPoster-banning and unbanning of LoveYourself saga under the rug partially because the leaked chat logs fuel drama, this encourages the mods who perhaps do not fully see eye-to-eye with the admins nor agree with the current direction of the site to leak chat logs as well in order to push their particular agenda.

  2. The admins will try to solve 1 by becoming ever more paranoid about potential leakers. Maybe there will be a extra super duper secret no-ZPoster-stans-allowed chat that only mods who have been ruthlessly vetted are allowed access to, which will just instantly lead to stratification between vetted and unvetted mods.

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 11 points 11 months ago

We know who leaked the chat log.

They were a recent add to the mod team, and they dow loaded the entire chat from when they joined until a couple days after z was banned. When the leak was sent via url we closed the old mod chat and started a new one with active mods.

The leak does not contain the entire discussion of zppster, the emoji, nakoichi and the moderation of that larger meta event.

I would have been more than happy to discuss their dissatisfaction either on hexbear or in DM. I did exactly that with another mod who thought we were using AI tools to moderate which is 100% false that mods comments are still up and they are still a member of the mod team.

The only change to the mod chat is that we are being more vigilant about not posting personal info there. It is quite sad abd malicious to leak months of irrelevant discussion and personal info because of a disagreement over moderation.

I'm not quite sure how engaging in multiple posts where I'm begging for concrete ways to change is sweeping it under the rug but I can understand how someone would reach that conclusion.

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