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[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 minutes ago

Now that's capitalism... Seems like the tech bros got the homefield Advantage, since you know, they own the means of computing..

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 hours ago

The company doesn't care about you. The company doesn't care about you. The company doesn't care about you.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

This is why you don't plan your life around a job. Plan your job around your life.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

That sounds like a very privileged mindset to me. Most of us don't have the resources to have that luxury.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago

Never had privilege; I've just been fortunate enough to have an emergency fund. Took me over a decade to save enough, but I have enough now that I could go 3 months without a job.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 hours ago

This is the shit I'm worried about when family members tell me I should expand and keep my mind open to moving somewhere to chase a job. I don't have the resiliency to survive a failure like this.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Reminds me of McRaven's commencement address... Sometimes, no matter how much you try, you still end up a sugar cookie.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 5 hours ago (5 children)

I don't want to kick the original author while they're down, but PayPal is a known shit company, and has been almost from the start. It's closely related to the leopards-ate-my-face phenomenon — if you're willing to work for a shit company, expect shit.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Not everybody has all the information to know whether a company is known for this kind of shit. I've heard a lot of stories about PayPal screwing over sellers in particular by freezing their funds for no justified reason, but I can see people falling for the "they must have been doing something bad they aren't admitting" you always see in response to anyone complaining about some authority imposing arbitrary punishments on them.

My personal gripe with PayPal is, I was once relying on income from sales through them, and had withdrawn money to my bank that I needed to pay my rent. A customer filed a spurious dispute (later resolved in my favor) on a sale that was only a tiny portion of that, and their response was to immediately reverse the whole completed bank transfer. So I almost missed paying rent and had to scramble to figure it out at the last minute.

Anyway, fuck PayPal, sympathy to all their victims.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

From my layman's perspective it sounds like this should net him some compensation under promissory estoppel

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 hours ago

That was the very first thing I thought of. For the unaware, promissory estoppel is when party A is damaged by party B promising something, then later rescinding it. It is something you can file a lawsuit over.

For instance, maybe someone says “I’ll buy you a brand new Maserati if you drive your current car off a bridge.” You know they can afford the car, and a reasonable person would believe this promise. So you shake on it, and proceed to dump your car over the side of the bridge. Then that person laughs and goes “yeah, I changed my mind. I’m not buying you a Maserati.” Now you have been damaged because of an action you took due to their promise. You can sue them, to force them to fulfill their side of the promise, or at least to make you whole again.

In the screenshot’s case, it sounds like he made some major financial investments in this job. He moved to a new location, turned down other job offers, etc… He could sue PayPal to force them to repay the costs that he incurred as a result of their rescinded job offer.

The only reason employers still do shit like this is because individuals either don’t realize that they can sue for it, or don’t realize that lawyers will take their case.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

Not a lawyer, but the usual explanation is that these contracts are “at will” and the contract includes language indicating it can be terminated by either party for any reason at any time.

Again, not a lawyer and I agree this is terrible behavior. However, this is why some people say you should never give notice until you’ve literally started your new job.

[–] [email protected] 68 points 7 hours ago (7 children)

People have been falling for the lies of big tech companies for too long. We desperately need unions, and those unions need to push back on these kinds of ineffectual, time-wasting hiring processes.

Look at this asshole though. The image cuts off right when he's starting into the mealy-mouthed hustle culture part of the linkedin post. Gotta show that you, special magical you, are the one developer who doesn't mind the exploitation. You stay positive and give 110% to everything, even when they're fucking you over.

There's always a stupid as shit hustle bro willing to scab and do the work, they can vibe code through it I guess. If this god forsaken industry had any solidarity at all, then no tech company you've ever heard of would be able to hire a single person any more.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 6 hours ago

the last paragraph took this post from "that sucks" to solidly "yea this didn't happen" territory It's just more pro corporate slop meant to keep people on the platform instead of going out and looking for local jobs or going to actual websites to find open positions

[–] [email protected] 20 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Peter Thiel is evil. Don't work for him. Don't use his products.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago

Theil holds Vance's leash, tightly. If Vance becomes president, Theil becomes president.

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[–] [email protected] 114 points 10 hours ago (9 children)

I'm sorry, but if a prospective employer is asking me to do seven rounds of interviews, I'm going to take that as a giant red flag that they a.) don't respect me or my time and b.) are woefully incompetent at every other aspect of their business.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

This was actually pretty normal for the last couple of tech jobs. Screening call with recruiter, phone screen with hiring manager, then a full-day on-site or zoom with 3-6 rounds. Sometimes, they would ask for a presentation about past work before the on-site. The number of rounds isn't indicative of anything in big tech. Smaller companies do fewer and can't afford to be as picky.

The problem is that after you've signed the offer and given your notice, you're going on faith that the new company offer isn't going to fall off. I've heard it happen a few times, usually when new company puts on a full hiring freeze.

It sucks, and the only way to mitigate it is to be talking to multiple companies when you decide to make a move.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago

The giant red flag is the name "PayPal".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

Yeah. I have been in a poition doing the hiring for over 10 years now and so far never ever needed more than three contacts with a possible employee. (Beide administrative things, like finding a dafe for an interview,etc.)

First contact Is via phone(or mail or a combination of both)if I find anything in the application that leaves questions open or is inconsistent.

Second contact is the actual interview. Nowadays m company is so small that we can do them "with the team", back in an earlier job that was not possible - so part three was either an long interview with the team or (preferably but not always possible) a day working with the team. (Whicu is of course payed at the same rate everyone gets)

But in my country we have to reimburse peoples travel costs and "trial tasks" during interviews would need to be payed as well.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 hours ago

I jumped through hoops like that once. Six or seven interviews with everyone from HR to one of the company founders, had to submit a freaking essay, only to be low-balled by the salary at the end; I ended up declining the offer. Biggest waste of time.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

That is partially on you

Don't trust companies, especially big companies.

You want me to move to a different city? Pay me.

You want me to quit my current job? I will right after I have signed an actual contract that guarantees I'll have a job with you.

I will NOT risk my life for some billionaire CEO

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

No, this is on you guys for not having laws or unions. If a company pulls this shit off here they get to may multiple months of paychecks in damages because they had signed the contract. And even still they cant just lay somebody off like that.

Welcome to modern society :')

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Oh for sure, that is how it SHOULD be, but it's not. That is what I was trying to say, we live in a shitty world, don't trust companies

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 9 hours ago (4 children)

General advice before was to wait until you’ve signed the contract and have a start date before quitting your current job. Now you have to wait until you actually start the new job before you quit the old one?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 hours ago

I mean, we live in a hellscape. Even if they had given him a start date, they can still fire him at any point for no reason. Labor has almost no protections (in the US, at least). It would be only slightly less bad to accept the new job, take it, quit the old job, and then get fired.

I'd rather we have like basic income, free health care, and public housing, so people don't need to worry about dying because some capitalist is willing to hire them.

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[–] [email protected] 176 points 11 hours ago (11 children)

That post turned into garbage in the last visible paragraph. In such a case he should sue the recruiting company, not post about "have i given it my best". LinkedIn trash

[–] [email protected] 1 points 58 minutes ago

He's being held hostage by unemployment in 2025. Even though it seems like he's caving it's not a bad move. He exposed the situation and at the same time kept an optimistic stance for future opportunities.

[–] [email protected] 80 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Bro's been brainwashed by hustle & grind culture. He's not ready to accept he's a victim.

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