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I love interacting with you all very much, and I know there's a lot of important political issues in the world going on right now. I love my Linux Mint setup, I support Palestine and trans people, and I've blazed through all of OG Star Trek, TNG, Voyager, and am now on DS9.

But I also want to discuss Luka to the Lakers and Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile and getting 5 Grammy's, a tour, and a Superbowl halftime show out of it, you know? I wanna talk about your country's Eurovision entries. Am I just not in the right communities?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago

That's one of the reasons I use Lemmy. I see links to major news stories, those I'm likely to care about and nothing else news related. I think there are celebrity news and sports communities. I'd also be surprised if there isn't a Eurovision community out there. But if the things you've described are "pop culture" then seemingly I have no interest in it.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Nah I'm with you on this. I have this weird set of interests that align me well with Lemmy, but also as a dirtbag couch goblin who binges reality TV like my life depends on it. I feel like Lemmy can get a little uh... holier than thou about it and I don't feel like I have any trashy echo chambers anymore. I miss Instagram reality and all the snark subs tbh.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

You get it. People are already dismissing Kendrick as "some rapper". Imagine trying to talk about Single's Inferno here. 💀

[–] [email protected] 9 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

'there is no posts related to my interests' 'go to domains specific to your interests!' domain specific to your interests: last post is a reddit screenshot from 3 months ago, 0 comments

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

If [email protected] can do it, your interest can too

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Gonna be honest, pop culture is the thing about Reddit I miss the least. I couldn't care less what drama some rich people are getting into, unless that drama is their yachts being sunk by killer whales.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

The place was truly dead when the front page became indistinguishable from supermarket tabloids.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 17 hours ago

Got to be the change brother. Start posting stuff. I'll read it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 18 hours ago

DAE died a violent death on reddit years ago. I was there. I remember the backlash.

Let's not revive it here. This place is special.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 23 hours ago

Yes and I love it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 21 hours ago

You can always create posts in appropriate communities to start conversations on topics you're interested in. Be the change you wish to see in the world.

I don't care much for most pop culture stuff and get enough by happenstance from other sources/people.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Even when I was still on Reddit, I needed a friend to explain to me that Funko Pops don't do anything - you just have them.

So really I think it's just me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Hahaha yeah Funko Pop collectors are so weird right hahahaha

-casually hides my Play Arts Kai Sephiroth and Cloud behind a curtain-

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

No. I make my own pop culture.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Go on asklemmy and ask what people think of the situation. Go on casualconversation and talk about your opinions.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I think this is a problem with the Fediverse in general.

Search Kendrick Lamar on BlueSky and it's filled with people celebrating it, breaking down different aspects of the show, and making memes. Search the same on Mastodon and you get news articles about the show and the occasional personal post. A majority of the posts have 0 engagement on most of the posts.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

OP, this is a pop culture reference. Your lemmy account will now be revoked. 🔫 Hand it over

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

I am nothing if not a contradiction.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

*I'm nothin' ifn't a contradiction

[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago

I'm: A Contraction

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Personally I'm longing for more discussion about ideas and less about events and definitely less about people.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Would you be interested in my 4 000 word thinkpiece on how Kamala Harris' campaign co-opting Charli XCX's Brat Summer is a perfect encapsulation of the how the neoliberal mechanisms in the United States try to use cultural capital to mask their regressive politics? Trump appearing on Joe Rogan, and George Bush's "drinking a beer with the little guy" will also make appearances.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I hear you. I could go on about how pop culture is lame etc and not really answer your question but I think, the more the merrier. If I'm not interested in the Lakers, I can ignore it and scroll past it. Easy. It would be nice for people who want to discuss the Lakers to have a place to discuss the Lakers, though.

Honestly this place is starting to piss me off a little bit sometimes. Because it's like the users here actually want 'All' to just be politics all the time and for there to be no variety to anything. You can talk about missing features from Reddit and think of ideas to make this place a little better and you'll get responses like "No. Why would anyone want more features? I know that I don't have to personally use them if I don't like them but I prefer pretending it's 1998, so no one can have them. And why would we want more users? I like empty communities with no activity. And then complaining about empty communities with no activity."

So I dunno. It's gonna be interesting to see if this place actually grows or if it just stagnates. I'm right there with you though. I'd be more than happy to see pop and sports and things I'm not really interested in because then there's a bigger chance of things that I am actually interested in taking off here.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I hear you. I could go on about how pop culture is lame etc and not really answer your question but I think, the more the merrier. If I’m not interested in the Lakers, I can ignore it and scroll past it. Easy. It would be nice for people who want to discuss the Lakers to have a place to discuss the Lakers, though.

Thank you for this! I got a few comments being like "Why would you want to, pop culture is vapid" and like...I know T_T, but that doesn't make ME vapid. Some people go on COD or whatever to blow off steam after work, I just want to go on my non-corporate social media to discuss how the Lakers traded away their future for AD and somehow STILL CAME OUT ON TOP (I have been praying for their downfall my entire life and it continues to not work).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 21 hours ago

"Why would you want to, pop culture is vapid"

A lot of these people think they're better than you for having more s o p h i s t i c a t e d and mature, adult-like interests.

I won't challenge them directly, I guess, because it's the entire thread and that would be aggressive, but it is rooted in insecurity.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Honestly this place is starting to piss me off a little bit sometimes.

What you describe is a vocal minority. It's pretty obvious that most of the users wouldn't wind getting the place getting at least twice as active.

Not sure if I mentioned it to you, but you are aware of [email protected] ? I'm going to start daily threads there to promote non-political communities

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[–] HobbitFoot 10 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Politics flood All because that is what most people post and upvote here.

Building a new community requires yelling into the void for a few months and heavy cross promoting to get any traction.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

There are bajillion other sites where you can wallow in mainstream pop culture and consume whatever slop that has been deemed as sufficently advertiser friendly. I am here to fly my freak flag high.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I used to interact with people from my country on reddit

Because of that, along with me not watching/reading romanian news, i miss big events like the country being invited to schengen

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago

Yes, it was. It was all over lemmy for several days.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago

I dunno I barely know what people are talking about anyways even when using reddit or twitter because most of my interests are aren't that mainstream

[–] [email protected] 80 points 1 day ago (16 children)

It's a bit of a mixed bag, and the real thing is that there are other people who want to talk about it here. Trust me, I run a Taylor Swift community here, and it is an uphill battle - but it's worth it because there are people who care and enjoy the community.

If you're up for it, choose one or two communities and then nurture them. When reddit imploded 2 years ago we came over and we had a ton of people open hundreds of communities and then abandon them, people just opened them left and right and then expected a large audience the next day. Instead expect it to follow the 90-9-1 rule. Out of a hundred people, 90 of them will lurk and never participate. 9 will comment, and one will post. You will need to be the one to post for a while - but it will grow over time.

Take care of the communities, let them know you're here to stay, and that it's a place where you can chat about it. We're a lot of nerds here, but nerds can also like football, there's [email protected] that is usually pretty quiet but obviously people subscribed to it.

And if you're a swiftie make sure to stop by [email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Only when it comes to hearing about new games. For all the people I see in random non-game threads that mention games or get game references, there's next to no activity in the game-related communities.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Yeah, but every time I hear about celebrity shit it's fucking stupid and it pisses me off so I consider missing it a good thing.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 day ago

I’ve been way out of pop culture loop even before I started using Lemmy.

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